thankyou everyone for you insight, i live right in scotia and it really is a small place, i truly believe that if he committed suicide, they would have discovered him,,,I found out today that his parents are now divorced, i know that tends to happen in these type of situations, however there are so many things that really bother me, that i just cant shake....there are so many reports floating around saying that the girlfriends dad has refused to take a polygraph, also the same source told me that the craiq and his dad had an unusually bad relationship. see its so hard because there are no concrete details that I can look at to confirm these stories...I feel the local police are so tight lipped about everything...If this was my family member and as a mom I think and would expect the exact opposite than what has happened.....I will keep everyone posted and contact people, who are locally affiliated with the search....thanks everyone, this one is really eating away at me