Chewy
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We don't need laws for things like this. And it's no guarantee anyway. A child should be educated by his or her parents about which places are safe havens BEFORE they allow them to walk alone in the street. In Brooklyn there are some places of isolation but usually there is a shop or deli that if you are friendly with the owner or workers this can be a safe haven.
My DH pointed out that if he got lost one block away from his destination that he wasn't aware enough of his neighborhood to walk around alone. And it's so very sad but it's true. Although you would not expect something like this to happen, there are other things that could go wrong. The mother should have followed her son on the first few tries and had him meet up in a specific location. This way she could observe his behaviors as he walked alone, ex "does he look both ways" "does he interact with strangers"
I've done this with my own son a few times and realized that he stops to put the lids back on garbage cans on the way to school. Seemed to me to be a perfect set up for a pedophile, go ahead of him and pull the lids off then approach him when he's fixing them to tell him what a great kid he is for helping the neighborhood out.
But as I said before, the culture in this neighborhood has always been to led little children roam unattended. So I'm sure she was swayed by that.
Creepier and creepier, the first apartment I rented myself when I first moved to NYC was at 479 E9th St. in Kensington Brooklyn. <modsnip> It's a hideous neighborhood, nothing at all like Borough Park.
My DH pointed out that if he got lost one block away from his destination that he wasn't aware enough of his neighborhood to walk around alone. And it's so very sad but it's true. Although you would not expect something like this to happen, there are other things that could go wrong. The mother should have followed her son on the first few tries and had him meet up in a specific location. This way she could observe his behaviors as he walked alone, ex "does he look both ways" "does he interact with strangers"
I've done this with my own son a few times and realized that he stops to put the lids back on garbage cans on the way to school. Seemed to me to be a perfect set up for a pedophile, go ahead of him and pull the lids off then approach him when he's fixing them to tell him what a great kid he is for helping the neighborhood out.
But as I said before, the culture in this neighborhood has always been to led little children roam unattended. So I'm sure she was swayed by that.
Creepier and creepier, the first apartment I rented myself when I first moved to NYC was at 479 E9th St. in Kensington Brooklyn. <modsnip> It's a hideous neighborhood, nothing at all like Borough Park.