LOL. For a minute I thought my "thanks" had the power to destroy
Yes, I think there are many reasons why the Ls could have been left believing S was still wearing the ring, not all of them alarming. In keeping with my above posts, it could have simply been a gap in communication. If he assumed they knew about a potential breakup, he might have felt like a fool in front of them (
"he had been made a sucker of") and not mentioned it. When he found out she wasn't home, who knows where he went next. Clearly, he was not yet "okay" with what had transpired that night ... maybe he sought the company of friends. Maybe someone there made a suggestion about another guy -- who knows.
But you've said two things I hadn't thought of before. The BF/F, out of pride, could have lied about getting the ring back, and the story the anonymous guy (brother -- or friend to brother -- of another member of BF/F's band, IIRC) shows people were talking about it in some way.
I suppose if the BF/F lied about getting the ring back, he must really have felt duped. Surely, if you were guilty of something like causing SL harm, that is
not a fact you would manufacture?