mike balto
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Enmeshment is one manifestation of the extreme psychological damage caused by a narcissistic parent.
Enmeshment is about boundaries being blurred or obliterated. A narcissistic parent does not view her daughter as being a separate individual, much less one deserving of love. To allow her daughter to be separate, to be her own person, is to lose control. Narcissists experience anything less than complete control as an existential threat to themselves.
If Kim is a narcissist then, those texts don't reflect a need by her to live vicariously through Skylar, however pathological that would be. What they reflect IMO is Kim's refusal to allow Skylar to have a life of her own at all. A zero sum game, in which only Kim is allowed to win, and one which Skylar must lose over and over again. With a smile on her face, and while expressing gratitude to her mother for loving her so much.
it's voice to text
You can see it in some of the other incorrect words. That's what voice to text does a lot of the time. I'm using it right now. It doesn't always hear certain inflections