tybee204 said:Char,
I dont understand the need nor the purpose of the Victims Family debating facts with Family of the Convicted. The only facts relavent are those presented in Court. The facts presented justified the Conviction of both suspects according to a jury of 12. To date that conviction stands. Nothing is a fact untill presented and argued as evidense. My advice is to shine them on and focus your energies on providing information and education so other young women may avoid this trap of abuse and not befall Carrie's fate.
Hi Ty, I understand what your saying but again I believe if something was overlooked and I am to pigheaded to see the difference I would like to try to understand why they feel the way they do. I can't change their name calling or the way they look at Carrie and Ms. Culberson, but I can change the way I respond to them and I am doing that. Giving them the chance to explain their way of thinking. If I get slammed for it, that's my bad. That is the difference between me and them. I show compassion like Carrie did, her mother did and like FindCarrie was doing. If they choose to ignore that and go back to their ways it only steels my resolve to support Carrie and Ms. Culberson and findcarrie. On the other hand I am already an advocate at a woman's shelter here in NY and I was previously a victim of psychological abuse so I know the pitfalls and help others daily. Thanks for the suggestions though I appreciate it.