i've been reading the posts, praying for good news, and just can't believe that THIS is how it's coming to a close. maybe i'm being too harsh a critic, but if she was in that house all this time, i am going to be even more disgusted and livid than i already am. sad to say, but i just don't have much faith in law enforcement, generally. too many times i've seen them make what are unacceptable, ungodly screw ups. it burns me to no end.
i do get that we don't know for sure that she was there all along, but i'm guessing she was and it makes me sick.
another point i feel i have to say something about, and pray i can articulate it without offending anyone, is the behavior/actions of tj.
from the beginning, FM and TS Sr have not only endured their own hell, but have made the search for E and supporting K and TJ their priority. this in spite of other life challenges. i may be alone in this, but i get the feeling TJ has been out of line with FM before, and honestly, i find his lashing out, cursing, screaming, losing control in public etc to be not only totally uncalled for, but also, quite possibly a sign that he is not in a place emotionally, to be raising K at the moment. she needs someone who puts her first, despite their own feelings of anger and pain. i do feel so badly for TJ, don't get me wrong. but it just troubles me to consider the environment he is subjecting K to. that poor child has witnessed enough. she needs to be in a calm, consistent environment wherein her primary caregiver can keep a grip on his own rage and put her first.
i'm truly sorry if this offends anyone. it started to bother me when i first read about his treatment of FM and his father. i didn't say anything but after the events of today, i just felt a burning conviction to speak out on this.
my thoughts and prayers to FM, TS Sr, CC, TJ, and most of all, precious K...who needs to be protected and loved and cherished.
beautiful elaina will forever be the angel watching over her big sis. but oh how it wasn't supposed to turn out this way. i just cannot understand.
MOO IMO