I'm wondering if the reason she was carrying that amount of money might not have been to obtain an abortion? Sorry, I imagine that made a lot of people wince. But I think many women died from illegal abortions. And it certainly wouldn't have been something she told anyone about except the father of the baby (maybe the man she was seen fighting with?). Maybe the father was Dr. Melfi and her hopes of having a marriage and a "premature" baby were dashed? Maybe Dr Melfi directed a brother or close friend to help her find someone who would do the procedure? If the procedure went wrong, whoever helped her wouldn't have owned up to what she was up to that day.
I really and truly hope it's like someone before said- she was beautiful and spoke 5 languages. She already wanted to travel as a stewardess. I hope she joined the CIA and was a glamorous spy.
BBM.
I'm not too sure about the abortion scenario. I don't doubt that many women disappeared that way, given the fact that in those times abortions were illegal, so getting one under the table was risky at best, not to mention that medicine even where legal procedures were concerned was nothing like it is today. The thing is, I can see it more easily in some other cases than Lola's. I don't know if it's possible that she would have had a boyfriend, as everyone (friends and family) indicated she had no close male friends and she seemed to be more of the homebody type. Everything we've read about her personality makes me think they were probably right. It sounds like having a boyfriend was the last thing on her mind at that very moment, and like she was the type to want things "done right" where dating and marriage were concerned.
The only way I can imagine that she would have a secret boyfriend would be if it was someone her family would disapprove of. But that doesn't sound too likely, for one, she was acting normal by accounts and her relationship with her family was going well. I'm not sure how to explain, but even if she was hiding a relationship so she could get along with her family, I think that most people would have at least started acting a bit odd at least sometimes, such as appearing to be troubled or sometimes being more distant. I feel like she'd have to be a very good actress to not raise any red flags in a situation like that. Not to mention, it seems like nobody noticed anything odd - the type of thing that would be only slightly unusual at the time but which people could bring up during an investigation. For example, if she went out regularly without her story matching up or even without any explanation, etc.
I'm also not sure that Lola would get an abortion. People actually thought she had gone away to join a convent, doesn't sound like the type who would get an abortion! Of course that people always surprise us, but it seems slightly out of character that the same person who came across as being interested in joining a convent or running away to one, and who didn't accept car rides because she thought it wouldn't be proper, would have a secret boyfriend and get an abortion. It's not just that she was a Catholic, as I know many Catholics who are pro-choice (even though to be honest, I also know many who are pro-choice but who personally wouldn't do it), but this were the 1940s, not exactly 2013. I'm not saying that her religion rules it out but coupled with everything else we know about her it sounds unlikely to me.
I don't know if her clothes are the kind of stuff someone would have worn to get an abortion. The impression I get from hearing about how they work in those days, is that people would have worn something that did not attract any attention and which was very practical.
I'm saying it's improbable, though of course I'm not going to make the assumption that it would be 100% impossible since when it comes to personal stuff people can always surprise me, it just doesn't sound likely to me.
:twocents:, :moo:, etc.
By the way, the bolded part? It's exactly what I hope happened.