ChickaDee221
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Just to play devil's advocate here, but BD is a bartender. It's not totally outside the realm of possibility that being a bartender, she doesn't have a desire to go and hang out at bars on her time off as she may feel like she's still in a work environment in such establishments. For example, I used to run a movie theater and on my days off I wouldn't want to go see movies at my theater or any other as I felt like my time off was my escape from there.
I can see that. My question is how long was she a bartender? Follow up, how long as she been a SAHM? She is 23. Not sure the laws in OH. I know there are some weird ones. But, in a lot of states, you can't bartend until your 21 because it requires special classes. She would have gotten pregnant at 20-21 (ish), had her son at 21- 22 (ish), and turned 23 in Feb. I m only giving a range because we have no idea when they son's birthday is. I worked as an usher at a movie theater in high school. And, I never wanted to be there when I wasn't working. But, it didn't span my post theater employment.
I don't believe that if they went out (usually the "other direction, to Cincinnati") to have some alone time as parents, they didn't stop at least once to have a drink or drinks somewhere. Even if it was only one time... You wouldn't make the concrete statement that it was "the first time".