Bbm - Really good points, GBMG. Maybe that convo happened after the 2nd attack? I wonder how many teachers knew about the notes in the lockers? I wonder how many knew the police were involved and maybe that is why they held back? But I really have to wonder when a kid has strangulation marks, and asks a question like that, I am really surprised this teacher held back on that convo. -Seems like such a red flag and missed opportunity to either intervene on behalf of Bill, or to enlighten (someone) in hindsight...
BBM1: If it happened at all. JMO, but I see lots of possible reasons, including attention-seeking, for making the statement up. Even if Bill did ask the Q, it could have come out of genuine surprise (mb in health or science class), as in, "
Wha-a-at?! How could you choke
yourself?!" I also wonder if people were saying that about him ... to which he might try to defend himself with, "But how could I do that to myself?!"
In any case, if he was not savvy about the reasons why kids
do do that, I doubt the teacher would put the idea in his head. JMO. Of course, that doesn't mean other kids didn't tell him. But remember, no Internet, so that information would be hard to come by. Also, JMO.
BBM2: IMO, schools are little hotbeds of gossip. My no-holds-barred guess would be that if Bill told even one person, "everybody knew everything."
But you raise a really good Q with your BBM3. How much
did he tell? (And how much showed the next day?) If he was in denial due to victim-shame, would he have shared the choking stories? Might he have just said "mugged?" If it was auto-erotic, FOR SURE he wouldn't tell, right? I think the notes would have been a less threatening share, but JMO. (ETA: Also, the fact that notes also went to two of Bill's friends suggests to me that the notes were well known around school.")
If teachers knew that Bill had been attacked and gone to police, they may not report the question
because it was already in LE's hands. Also, more so in those days, teachers don't like to think of their students in danger ... they could have their own denial. Or, if the person who hurt Bill was a school employee of some standing, could they have
started the rumor about it being auto-erotic to discredit him? That, of course, is the more sinister possibility ...