That doesnt come off cold , I had thought about the same thing, I think if I were the family I would be very grateful that strangers worked so hard on my daughter, sisters case, I would be reaching out and providing a statement, thats just me. I saw on Matts blog a lady kinda went on a rant about that, I imagine the family does not realize that it looks to people who have spent alot of energy, tears and emotions on this case like they could care less about all of us who LOVED a girl we never met, I want to blame it on they arent ready but on matts blog it looks like by one of the familys comments there will be no update to the public JMO but I would feel obligated to to update all the people that worked so hard to bring her home JMO my opinion and no offense intended and all that stuff !