I meant secrecy in terms of not sharing with a reliable, trusted person, the trauma he says he felt during and after taking mushrooms and then not sleeping for 40 hours.We should blame the system for promoting a culture of silence.
"Giovanetti acknowledged a lack of trust between the FAA and pilots, who don't believe the agency's assurances that they can fly again after a mental health diagnosis.
The vast majority of pilots do ultimately get their certification back, Giovanetti said. But she acknowledged that the process can often take months or years, calling those excessive delays "the elephant in the room" that can discourage pilots from seeking treatment."
While keeping secrets about your bad trip is normal for kids and addicts, IMO responsible adults, in positions of high responsibility, need to reach out.
For example, any employee assistance program has a crisis line, and I'm sure there are similar anonymous crisis lines for pilots.
JMO