Gitana,
I agree with your assertion about our media. I was just recently, in light of the recent anniversary of Princess Diana's death, discussing the same with my husband.
Princess Di's death was one of those, "remember what you were doing, when.. ", moments for me. I remember it, clear as day (well, it was evening where I was) and I remember my thoughts about the incident.
I remember thinking how bad, and hard up, the media must be in the UK. I was always reading about the royal family being harassed my paparazzi, as well as huge sports figures. The same paparazzi behavior happened to American actors/actresses that would visit or tour the UK.
Their mags were full of "inside" stories and dirty rumors about celebrities. We had the enquire, but that seemed to be more focused on UFO'S, women giving birth to warewolves, and government conspiracies.
I'm sorry, if this post seems to be off-topic, but I don't believe it is. In the past few decades, our media has evolved away from free-press storied and real journalism and into sensationalism and Enquir'esque fiction. So, yes. The media is a huge part of the problem.
With that said, I'm not really sure how to fix that part of the issue. There may be little we can do about the media issue, just as there isn't much we can do about the gun issue. Neither issue can be properly dealt with, without revising our Constitution. And that is something I am NOT willing to consider.
And, so we're back to the beginning. Back to where we can make a difference and that is at home.