Why would the roommates be sketched out about him not taking his gear to the lacrosse practice? I would think the gear is property of the school and the athletes wouldn't carry it back in forth to their rooms, right? Do lacrosse players do that? That's great that the roommates contacted his family right away. I had a scare like this happen to me when I was a freshman too, I came back from class and the lights of my room were on, my roommate was not there, so I just assumed that she was at another room or at another floor, but she wasn't back the next day, at this point I was getting worried but I was not so sure of what to do because we were roommates for like, 2 weeks, so 3 days go by and I just text her "hey, you're okay?" and I kid you not, she just replies with "yeah, how are you?", turns out she just went home and forgot to turn off the lights, or to let me know she was leaving. So, good on these kids for doing something right away.