GordianKnot
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Me too. I agree that I don’t think there is necessarily substantial evidence pointing to a suicide theory. Very much hoping that it isn’t the case. I agree about the backpack - what’s so interesting to me is that it was too small to point to Owen planning an extended getaway. But full enough to indicate he had some sort of activity or meet up planned. Something just occurred to me - maybe he was headed to a favorite bar or coffee shop to cram a last study session in before midterms? Seems odd that he would have been evasive with roommates over this, but perhaps he was embarrassed? Stressed about missing practice? Feeling overwhelmed and not wanting to explain himself?
BBM:
I agree with the bolded portion of your post.
That ATM withdrawal, coupled with the backpack, signal his intent to do something purposeful.
His behavior was clearly goal-directed.
Nobody knows what that goal was, though.
The fact that OK gave zero indication of what his true intentions were that night is our biggest clue.
It was definitely something he didn't want anyone to know about.
That limits the scope of possibilities, at least in my mind.
The coffee shop/study session doesn't fit with the ATM withdrawal in that his Mom indicated it was a fairly sizable amount...can't remember her exact words, but she indicated it was more than she would have expected to see him withdraw all at once. You wouldn't need that much money to buy a coffee.
He could have been meeting up with someone for another reason, though.
That scenario is very much in play here.
The confounding thing about OK's disappearance is that there really isn't any scenario that can be ruled out right now...anything is possible.
And there's nothing to go on, per LE.
That's a horrible combination:
"Could be anything."
"We have nothing."
Frustrating for LE.
Terrifying for his parents.
JMO.
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