Reading further on
Narcissistic Personality Disorder
The following are some of their character traits.....how many do you think relate to Oscar? Quite a few I would expect...
* Control freaks
* Irritability
* Short fuses
* Low frustration tolerance
* Argumentative
* Need to have the last word
* Unable to lose
* Wont take No for an answer
* Quick to anger if you dont accommodate them
* Quick to being aggressively defensive if you call them on any deficiency, fault or responsibility
* Cant apologise or if do, cant do it sincerely
* Rarely say, Thank you or Congratulations
* Dont feel or demonstrate remorse
* Feel entitled to enthusiastic and appreciative approval, adoration, agreement and obedience
* Gloat in victory, sullen in defeat
* Quick to rage if you humiliate them
http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/just-listen/201202/rage-coming-soon-narcissist-near-you
.....quite revealing isn't it?