SomeoneElse333
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One thing to consider is that law enforcement may be holding some information closer to them for fear of having it released and broadcast across social media. Some family members are very active online and may inadvertently release information that the police do not want them to...even trivially seeming details might compromise their efforts.The pain of missing a loved one, the frustration of days and days passing by without finding a clue, the desperation that envelopes one's being when one's torn between not giving up and attempting to feel 'normal'... all understandable and heartbreaking emotions, but at the point when those feelings morph and merge in to an anger directed at agencies who have helped and continue to help in ways in which they are trained to do so does not encourage their cooperation
Even 'professionals' exhibit human emotions and when someone beats up on them there is the possibility they might shut down or shift focus to any of many other cases in which they must address in their job.
It is difficult for loved ones to remain polite and humble in such circumstances, and I hope the professionals involved in this case maintain their professionalism while still maintaining their human compassion and understand there is a mother fighting back against the likely reality she has lost a son and her release of anger is a mixture of wanting 'something done now' and a survival technique.
I also hope the professionals shift from the typical play book and expand the communication channel to the family: keep them informed, show them all video in your possession that shows DJ and help put their mind at ease that you are doing all you can... if your are, indeed, doing all you can.
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