When my first husband & I adopted our daughters, we had to go through extensive checks on everything in our lives. We had to have references & psychological evaluations. We had home visits where they checked out every room. Our very private life was examined as well as daily activities, hobbies, interests. A check into any criminal behavior & credit.
I'm not complaining...it was worth it & we had nothing to hide.
I just don't understand how he was able to adopt this poor child & I wonder if they did any follow up visits. We had follow up visits after both the adoptions. The judge even asked our first daughter when she was 5 1/2 years old (we were adopting the second daughter at that time), out of our presence, alot of questions about her life with us. Did anyone do this for this little girl? Did anyone notice how unhappy she was? She must have been in school & around other relatives.
I don't understand how no one noticed how miserable she must have been. Well, I guess I can. I was once a miserable little girl & no one knew why I was so unbearably unhappy. Not even my parents.
I did tell my mom but she just didn't understand what I was trying to say. I know I didn't understand what was happening.
I know this is probably a really stupid question, but how do you hide being such a sick evil person like that?