So for those of you who are not from the area. He could have walked back the trail to the waters edge to smoke or Pee. That is a steep and sandy area of the waters banks. So with the Snowy and icy conditions and being intoxicated or slightly drunk it is very easy to fall right in. I was with Detpac and he was throwing a rock seeing how deep the water was at times. He slipped on a dry day just doing that. So imagine Shane in his condition and the snow and ice? So please for the love of God Get off the Suicide thing.
Kevin- I'm saying this to you as others on this thread in the most concerned possible way I know how through typing on a computer screen.
Please do not take any negative tone in my voice and interpret any theory I have and crush it. I encourage you to challenge it, of course. That's why we are here, right?
I want to hear your theories- I want you to tell me you see things another way. But, please don't dismiss it or "ask for the love of God to get off it."
The truth is We just don't know. Foul play -homicidal drownings, is very rare--- it would be very hard to prove or find any physical evidence - unless, someone speaks up or saw something. It can never be ruled out completely. It was top on my list.
I have stated here on this thread many times the river was my back yard. In my 47 years of experience I have never slipped or fell into the river. I'm an avid boater, kayaker, skier- I've been in treacherous extremely dangerous flood waters on numerous occasions saving our belongings. Both in winter & summer months.
That's just me.
I personally, have a very hard time seeing this as "just an accident"... That only my opinion. Others see accident, very easily. But, with that said. I don't know Shane, I don't know was he is capable of. I'm trying to learn here.
People on this forum will believe what they want to, from all the evidence that's been given & evaluated. At this point in time, nothing can be ruled out completely.
Many of us are in the business. I do feel negligence here- again-IMO, maybe I got lucky throughout my life. 25 yrs as a bartender, do I think people left my bar drunk?...of course. Except, No one was injured or died in all those years. Was it just luck, perhaps.
It's a judgement call. It also seems like you are putting most of the blame on Kildares. We hear you. Many of of feel that way too. But, we can't say at this point that this establishment was responsible for this young mans death. If the family chooses to go forward with an investigation-that's their choice.
You claimed you've know this family for most of your life. While grieving, a suicide is hard for you accept. Understandably so. It simply can't be ruled out. If you want to believe, Kildares could have played a role, which lead to an accident- that ultimately resulted in death, that's your choice. No one is telling you here to get off Kildares