Cherokee
Well-Known Member
Nehemiah said:... I really don't see it any differently than my husband/I spending thousands of dollars over the years for our sons to have private batting lessons, attend baseball camps, basketball camps, football clinics, etc... We allowed those things because our sons had those interests, and because they and we wanted them to be the best. Did it make them the best? Not always. They aren't professional athletes nor did they ever win any money to repay us for all we spent. It was a family-thing~~something to be involved in as a family, something to rally around, something to help build their self esteem, something to spend all the extra money we had that we needed to get rid of (NOT) LOL.
Nehemiah, my friend, I understand what you are saying, but there IS a difference between pageantry as a hobby and sports as a hobby (or anything else). Pageantry is based on HOW YOU LOOK, not on on well you play or any real innate ability.
Yeah sure, there's a "talent" portion thrown in to try to make the pageants more palatable ... but everyone knows it's a minor part that doesn't really mean anything. Have you ever seen a homely contestant with superb talent win a pageant?
Pageants reward the current notion of exterior beauty. Women, girls, toddlers, even babies are awarded status as a result of inherited (and then enhanced) physical features. What could be more wrong than that? It is rewarding a person for something purely superficial.
"Beauty" pageants are toxic. They are based on a principle that does damage to the human psyche ... that how you look is a basis for self-worth. It is the same poison we are fed by Hollywood. All the emphasis is on the outer person, not the inner self.
Pageants do not build true self-esteem; rather, they tear it down and substitute a false security (and emphasis) in outward appearance. They are not a harmless, little hobby nor even a true competition of skill as in sports. Many things may be culturally acceptable, but that does not make them right, or even worthwhile.
We are more than the outward appearance of our physical bodies. We are more than this clay shell. We need to emphasize the sacred worth of every individual, not pander to the false illusion of exterior beauty.
IMO