HI, Detective Pinkie, sorry to hear about your troubles; no worries about falling behind, etc. Im sure well all be discussing this for a long time to come (15+ years for me, so far!).
First, on the issue of a fake kidnapping. I actually do think that this is what virtually ALL RDI (RDI investigators incl.) believe that the Ramseys staged a fake kidnapping. Yes, some think there was more to it than that, a psycho killer, a sexual predator, etc; but, still, a kidnapper. Thats what a ransom note means a kidnapping, and thats what was reported a kidnapping.
The note, indeed, nothing in the crime appears to be the work of someone who was panicked, or confused, frazzled, etc. The note, etc appears to be the work of someone with a plan, someone who took their time and performed deliberate actions. Theres just no panic or rush involved here.
In the note there is a time frame provided (expect call between 8 and 10), so the Ramseys could have taken advantage of that. They didnt. Are we to believe that they put that in there without consideration?
If they were thinking that they needed to do certain things to point away from themselves then they must have been thinking about what those things could be (notepad, pen, cord, tape, paint brush, wiping cloth...). So, I dont think it follows that we can say that they didnt think of this, or they didnt think of that, because the many deliberate acts taken to create this scene show that they must have been thinking about this, or that; or, at least, they would have if RDI is true.
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This idea that the note was written to point suspicion away from the family. How was that supposed to work once the body was found?
As it is they got more time out of it than anyone could have expected, but once the body was found it became, if RDI, self-incriminating evidence; right? I mean. thats what all RDI believe that they wrote it. Because no kidnapper would leave both note and victim; because no kidnapper would forget to bring his own ransom note; because no kidnapper would stay in the house as long as it would have taken to write a note that long; because no kidnapper would know where to find pad and pen, and, no kidnapper would know how to copy Mrs Ramseys handwriting and no kidnapper would have known all that inside information to put in the note, etc.
You see theres all this evidence from the note alone that points to the Ramseys, so how is it that we are supposed to believe that they created it to point away from themselves?
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