Well, I suppose we are just going to have to disagree. I have children, and there's not a snowballs chance in you know where, that I'd be doing what she's doing. But to each his own.
You know, just because it's not against the law, doesn't mean that it's in the best interest of the child. Maybe if you had a child of your own, you might understand what I am saying. And maybe if I didn't have children, I might understand what you are saying.
There are plenty of people who live together and have a child...that's not what I am talking about. It's the revolving door of men, coming and going. Pregnant by one guy, telling another it's his (with her daughter), then there's Scott...and trusting him with the girl and having him for "sleepovers." And having unprotected sex with him (and who knows who else), and then we move on to the next baby. And his father moves in (I believe) and then out. During this time, it's possible she has gotten pregnant with another child from another man.
When you have a child, you have to put that child first. If she keeps on this path...she might lose one or more of these kids. She may be a loving mom...she may love them dearly, but she has to quit having babies, and all these men in the lives of her children. I find it sickening that she would do this to the kids.
I have many friends that are divorced. I have many friends that are single moms. And of those, none of them expose their kids to the "dating" thing. They don't bring the guys around to meet the children until it is serious...why would they? The ones that are divorced...the kids have been through enough, that they don't need a "daddy of the week" around.
Personally, I don't think Amber shows a very good head when it comes to men. She gets pregnant, and then tries to get a relationship going around that. That's a real odd way of doing things. Jackie did that also.
As a parent, you have to put the kids first. Amber isn't doing that. She's putting her own wants and needs first. And that...is sad.
