SuperDave:
It is just like Bill Kurtis said in the A&E documentary: Look at the evidence one way, it was someone inside the house, look at the same evidence another way, and it was an intruder.
But leaving aside the $118,00 and "good southern common sense" for one moment, what do you make of the "proper burial" reference in the note.
If I were advocating for the RDI side (which I am not), I would say that phrase betrays that PR wrote the note, and shows the reason why the Rs didn't just take JBs body and dump it at some location where she would never be found. They wanted a cover-up that would allow for a proper burial of their child.
However, from the IDI side, I would advocate this phrase indicates the intruder knows something of the Rs religious beliefs.
Here's my take on the "proper burial" phrase. I believe a parent wrote the note. JB had already died, so the writer knew the "kidnap victim" was already dead. They perfect "explanation" for a dead victim was also written in the note (call police, talk to anyone and she dies, etc. ) The "beheading" nonsense was just that - shock value "this-must-be-a-terrorist" nonsense.
Now- they KNEW there was a dead body already in the house. So they wanted to give the impression they were "given her remains for proper burial". They HAD to say something like that. A REAL kidnapper wouldn't have left behind the victim anyway, dead or alive. And they certainly wouldn't have risked returning a dead victim for "proper burial".
But the Rs KNEW they would have a proper burial. Not only that, but a media storm of a world-class burial. There was NO way they'd ever secretly dispose of her body or pull a "Casey Anthony" and hide her till she decomposed past the point of determining a cause of death. They needed a burial, they needed her body. The only way to reconcile a "kidnapping" with a victim that never left the house was to infer in the note that the kidnappers felt a proper burial would be important to the parents.
Part of the reason the note is so long and so rambling is that the note was written after the fact. It was written to "fit" the crime that had already happened. The writers tried to incorporate every possible type of suspect and event. The first thing JR said to Detective Arndt was "this is an inside job", implicating friends and acquaintances, promptly fingering housekeeper LHP. They mentioned JR's "bussiness" and bonus amount to give the impression it might be a disgruntled employee. They mentioned "small foreign faction" and "beheading" to give the impression it might be a foreign terrorist group (who would never refer to themselves as a small foreign faction anyway). They mentioned she'd be killed if the Rs spoke to anyone. They promptly did, ensuring the "kidnappers" would act on their threat, thereby explaining the dead child. They mentioned the proper burial to explain why they still had the body. Never mind the note saying they'd be "denied her remains". They HAD her remains. There was NO WAY they weren't going to give her a proper burial.
By the way, no kidnapper/pedophile killer cares whether the victim has a proper burial. and I would venture a guess that in the entire recorded history of such crimes, there has been only ONE case where a ransom note has mentioned denying remains for a proper burial- JonBenet Ramsey.