BritsKate
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IMO...yes and no really. I believe he will have the capacity to kill again but whether the 'perfect storm' of events could brew leading to murder in his lifetime again, no one can say. I believe he will most certainly have access to firearms regardless of what the court dictates - he's likely to be attracted to the image of power, control, and intimidation. And most importantly, the rules for your average Joe don't apply to a narcissist. They live by a code of entitlement.based on your thinking here, do you believe he would repeat the offence... i.e. the amount of prison time will not make any difference to his behaviour once released.
I believe precious few actual narcissists ever reform though - they, like Oscar, can appear (superficially) remorseful but it's often an act to manipulate (to gain sympathy, exert control, etc). One can note the difference by the abundance of me's and I's.
OP (if he is an untreated narcissist) will always be a megalomaniac. He will always be selfish, manipulative, and cruel or charming, as needed to get what he wants. He will always be completely self-absorbed and demand he be of primary importance to everyone around him. What happens next though depends hugely on them, not him. The only way I know of to live with a narcissist is to pacify and coddle them. The only way I know of to live is to cease any and all contact with them and never look back.