SerenitySprings
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Oh I plan to!! I didn't get around to it last night or today. I am doing it tonight for sure.
It's mostly erroneous and psychobabble but I did find this bit interesting:
He said relatively rare, not impossible.
I want to add some personal knowledge about personality disorders.
My son showed signs as a toddler but it really started ratcheting up around age 9. He was diagnosed with conduct disorder because people under the age of 18 should not normally be diagnosed with personality disorders because there is still time to change the wiring of the brain until full brain maturity, or between 25-27 years old.
In the case of my child, and others like him, he was able to be diagnosed early because of the number of incidences and his ability to voice his intentions at home and with therapists. The early diagnoses (about age 15, maybe 15 1/2,) were a tool used to protect students and faculty at his school.
Once he was about 16 1/2 it was clear that the therapies were not effective at calming his violent tendencies so he was asked to leave public school for a special school. (A particular incident occurred at his school that freaked everyone out enough that he was no longer allowed to be there. Keep in mind, this was a few years after he got kicked out of another school for being a homemade bomb to school.)
Once at the special school, he lasted for a few months before they advised us to help him get a GED because the school was not equipped to deal with someone like him.
So yes, it is very rare for people under the age of 18 to be diagnosed with anything other than conduct disorder but there are exceptions.
During my son's final hospitalization, we told the psychiatrist that we were keeping eyes on him 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. My husband and I took turns sleeping so my son was never, not even for 60 seconds, alone. The doctor said he was ready to diagnose him as a narcissistic psychopath and as hard as that was, he said we could rest easy knowing that he would never kill himself or put himself in serious danger because of the narcissism but we should still keep ourselves locked away from him if we were going to sleep at the same time.
My point is that BR may or may not have had traits of a psychopath. He may or may not have been diagnosed with conduct disorder. But I will say that if BR was anything like my kid, he definitely could have committed the crimes that night. We never had more children because it would not have been fair to another child to be born into a situation like ours.
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