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LvsAMystry said:
Maybe I'm not reading this right, but is this portion from Raven and he's saying he has a baby on the way? If it's him writing it, this would have been about 4 mos before Kaiden would have been conceived!
It's been rumored that Janet had a tubal pregnancy a few months before conceiving Kaiden.
 
NC_VX:

04/16/2004, 06:47 AM
Guys, it looks like we're all on our own for this weekend. Its probably better, I am moving the end of htis month and getting preasure from friends and family that I am shirking my responsibilities for entertainment.... NO, not me!!!!

Besides, three mods to complette: Still don't have my CB installed, Trunk popper, muffler, or tint..... Very minor stuff, but I want to have my VX all shiny when she meets her brothers and sisters!!!!

Catch ya'll later!


__________________
-The Rave-
North Carolina


NC_VX
04/22/2004, 07:48 AM
4wheelparts.com.. grrrrrrrr

Ya'All, Don't know if I will be making it. I just got back from Chicago and my wife is giving me a hard time about leaving since we are moving next week!!!! Women!

If I don't make it, I will soon connect with some VX crew. I am feeling quite lonely out here in NC.

I wanted to say afew things about the quote that 4wheelparts is the best 4 wheel place. I know that there is one in Charlotte, NC and this is what I have to say.... I spent $2k on parts for my jeep, from springs, to seats, liner, push bars, pitman arms, steering columns, etc... All the accessories get in and I take the jeep in to have it all installed (because I don't have a garage to do it myself) and the freakin company calls me and said they can't cause the jeep has a spring over and they don't work on spring over lifts.... Holy Cow, it was their staff that came out, surveyed my car, recommended the correct solutions, and **** like that... And then they say they can't install any of it!!! PLuS, PLUS, PLUS, they recommended I sell the VX instead of mod it and spend the money I woud have spent lifing the VX and shiz to fix up my jeep!!!! F$*#&$'s

Just a few days!!!


__________________
-The Rave-
North Carolina


 
We haven't heard that they were moving, right?. Wonder if anything was packed up in the house?

Good find!!

As soon as I posted this, I realized that there were still clothes hanging in the closet in the picture of Raven and Kaiden sitting at the computer.
 
Jenifred said:
We haven't heard that they were moving, right?. Wonder if anything was packed up in the house?

Good find!!
We are still alittle fuzzy on the address timeline. Maybe they were moving from an apartment to the house where she was murdered...no, wait they moved to that house in August 2004 so I don't know where they were moving to in April 2004.

This is not 2005 but 2004.....right after they reconciled....and imo, he doesn't appear to be too happy with his responsibilities and "Women!"
 
JerseyGirl said:
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Wow, he's very excited by this vehicle. Notice the part about being part of something unique. Again, that looking for someplace to belong comes to mind. Reaching out to become a part of anonymous groups on the Internet bothers me. I'm not sure what it is or how to phrase it but this is really bothering me. People are supposed to bond with other people, not with cars or with strangers online. When they bond with objects rather than real people to whom they have responsibilities ... I just don't know what it is.
not that this has anything to do with the price of eggs...but raven's language aobut being part of something unique sounds a lot like the lingo they use at Southern Virginia Univ. I mean, that's what the whole school is about. The first students there (in '96-99ish) were called pioneers because they were doing
something different. I just think it's interesting...this is yet another place in raven's life where he is doing something that is "different" than most people.
 
anneshirley said:
not that this has anything to do with the price of eggs...but raven's language aobut being part of something unique sounds a lot like the lingo they use at Southern Virginia Univ. I mean, that's what the whole school is about. The first students there (in '96-99ish) were called pioneers because they were doing
something different. I just think it's interesting...this is yet another place in raven's life where he is doing something that is "different" than most people.
Good to know, I just thought it was more attention seeking behavior.
 
From Vehicross Forum posts:
NC_VX
05/03/2004, 11:35 AM
I'm definitely in. GOing up for Mother's Day. ANyone interested in going to a DC United Soccer game after? starts at 7:30 at RFK stadium!!!

__________________
-The Rave-
North Carolina


NC_VX
05/03/2004, 02:37 PM
Wormgod! Its a great environment and nothing like seeing a 14 year old play with the pro's! yes we can talk about it at the meet. Heck, we can just cruise over if there is enough interest. Nothing like coming in on a bunch of Vehicrosses!!!! I don't know if I can swing it, but maybe I can even get us VIP Parking. I'll check into that later on this week! I hate to push my hook-ups though, and that may do it!!!



 
ewwwinteresting said:
NC_VX:

04/16/2004, 06:47 AM
Guys, it looks like we're all on our own for this weekend. Its probably better, I am moving the end of htis month and [/B] getting preasure from friends and family that I am shirking my responsibilities for entertainment.... NO, not me!!!!

I think this refers to when the moved back in together after their reconciliation.
 
ewwwinteresting said:
Physical reconciliation sometime the end of April 2004 then?

I was told May, but if they were starting a new lease, May 1st would be right.
 
golfmom said:
I was told May, but if they were starting a new lease, May 1st would be right.
Living somewhere for 3 months? and then moving to Durham in August 2004? Two moves while pregnant.....yuck!
 
ewwwinteresting said:
We are still alittle fuzzy on the address timeline. Maybe they were moving from an apartment to the house where she was murdered...no, wait they moved to that house in August 2004 so I don't know where they were moving to in April 2004.

This is not 2005 but 2004.....right after they reconciled....and imo, he doesn't appear to be too happy with his responsibilities and "Women!"
oops! I need to get glasses. I've been doing this a lot.
 
anneshirley said:
not that this has anything to do with the price of eggs...but raven's language aobut being part of something unique sounds a lot like the lingo they use at Southern Virginia Univ. I mean, that's what the whole school is about. The first students there (in '96-99ish) were called pioneers because they were doing
something different. I just think it's interesting...this is yet another place in raven's life where he is doing something that is "different" than most people.
He's also stated outright in one of his posts that he likes to be different so it definitely seems to be emerging as a pattern.
 
The line that he's getting pressure from friends AND family just jumped out at me. I wonder who these friends and family members are that were pressuring him about his priorities, and what effect that would have over time. I wonder if he got better about prioritizing, if those pressuring him just let up at some point, or if he was being pressured from several different angles all the way up until the awful day of Janet's murder.
 
NC_VX
05/07/2004, 07:28 AM
I might be a redneck?

That's a very scary thought, ya know, its aleather couch from Ikea under there? Doesn't that qualify me for something other then a redneck?

I moved from California (15 years) to Utah (3 years) to Virginia (3 years) to NC (currently)... I still think I have Cali in me, but my friends from back home say I sound like I am from the south, but people from the south say I sound like I am from Cali... Since it was a tie, maybe this damn couch on the car is the proof that I did become a redneck. .. Holy Crap, I actually watched the NASCAR race (last 45 laps) over last weekend too.... Dude, this can't be... wait, at least I still say Dude!!!!


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-The Rave-
North Carolina


NC_VX
09/13/2004, 08:36 PM
Lazy Me! I'm in Durham, NC. I travel between Charlotte and Raleigh with soccer all the time and work in Beautiful Hillsborough!!!

I drive a very sweet custom painted Black VX. Check out my images!

Anyway, we've done some meets in DC and I know some guys from GA, SC, NC and VA would get together for a wheelin trip, we almost had one in Tennessee/NC boarder in early summber but due to military stuff it was canceled!!

Anyway... HI!


__________________
-The Rave-
North Carolina
 
NC_VX
01/20/2005, 10:54 AM

Who knows... Maybe I'll be back on my feet real soon and will be able to keep the VX. So far, its the Durango that stays cause it fits the baby, lots of stuff and the dogs... Its the Acura cause its good on gas and professional if I'm working sales.... So the VX just doesn't fit. However, if it was up to me I'd keep the VX and the Durango. Who cares about Gas Mileage when I can tow the Durango when it breaks down!!!

NC_VX
02/11/2005, 01:25 PM
Raleigh, North Carolina Meet
There is a car show for classic cars at the NC State fairgrounds on the 25-27 of February. I was thinking of getting together that Saturday to check out some cars for a few hours and see some local VX owners. Anyone like classic cars or want to get together for the VX's this month? __________________
-The Rave-
North Carolina


NC_VX
02/17/2005, 02:34 AM
Thanks for the bump... Yeah, the bikes got low miles and only ridden a few months out of year. I just need to unload it so thats why the low price...

As for the R1... I like the R1. They had an 03 model at the dealership brand new for 8k. I considered jumping on it but my next bike has to be a cruiser because OC Choppers got me interested and I've driven a few and I love the ride... I've got my eye on a sup'd up, stripped down Yamaha Roadstar Warrior. The thing rumbles like a harley and has the computer chip of an R1, which makes for a hellishly fast cruiser!



I'm sorry, but wasn't this guy unemployed, facing financial troubles and criminal activity? Why is he spending time going to car shows and looking at a Chopper???
 
ewwwinteresting said:
NC_VX
01/20/2005, 10:54 AM

Who knows... Maybe I'll be back on my feet real soon and will be able to keep the VX. So far, its the Durango that stays cause it fits the baby, lots of stuff and the dogs... Its the Acura cause its good on gas and professional if I'm working sales.... So the VX just doesn't fit. However, if it was up to me I'd keep the VX and the Durango. Who cares about Gas Mileage when I can tow the Durango when it breaks down!!!

NC_VX
02/11/2005, 01:25 PM
Raleigh, North Carolina Meet
There is a car show for classic cars at the NC State fairgrounds on the 25-27 of February. I was thinking of getting together that Saturday to check out some cars for a few hours and see some local VX owners. Anyone like classic cars or want to get together for the VX's this month? __________________
-The Rave-
North Carolina


NC_VX
02/17/2005, 02:34 AM
Thanks for the bump... Yeah, the bikes got low miles and only ridden a few months out of year. I just need to unload it so thats why the low price...

As for the R1... I like the R1. They had an 03 model at the dealership brand new for 8k. I considered jumping on it but my next bike has to be a cruiser because OC Choppers got me interested and I've driven a few and I love the ride... I've got my eye on a sup'd up, stripped down Yamaha Roadstar Warrior. The thing rumbles like a harley and has the computer chip of an R1, which makes for a hellishly fast cruiser!



I'm sorry, but wasn't this guy unemployed, facing financial troubles and criminal activity? Why is he spending time going to car shows and looking at a Chopper???
Simple: ego and narcissism

Remember, "The Rave" ahd been on those boards a long time. These were his buddies, as far as the Big Boy Toys of vehicles, etc. Sure, at one point he references losing his job. But obviously he doesn't tell them WHY. He has established an "online IMAGE" with these folks... one he doesn't want to sully. And keeping up the pretense, "I've got my eye on a sup'd up, stripped down Yamaha Roadstar Warrior" is surely part of that egocentric game. When, IMO, what he SHOULD have been focused on, was not his online life, but instead, bringing home a paycheck!
 
JerseyGirl said:
FWIW, while doing a search just now, 25 year-old Raven S. Abaroa has independent addresses in the following cities/towns in Virginia:

Arlington
Buena Vista
Fairfax
Fredericksburg
Vienna
How long did Raven live in Virginia, and was it a back and forth thing? Five towns sounds like a lot of moving around but I guess it would depend on how long he lived there.
 
JerseyGirl said:
How long did Raven live in Virginia, and was it a back and forth thing? Five towns sounds like a lot of moving around but I guess it would depend on how long he lived there.
Another question would be did he have a different job everytime he moved? IF so, that would be a lot of job hopping. Did he quit the jobs? Resign? Fired? Was he just building his resume? Did he owe the companies any money when he left? Just trying to speculate.....We have been told he owes Newkid's husband's company $50.00 :)
 
JerseyGirl said:
How long did Raven live in Virginia, and was it a back and forth thing? Five towns sounds like a lot of moving around but I guess it would depend on how long he lived there.
I think when you're living in rentals and don't have kids or tons of stuff, it's easier to move. When I was first married we moved quite a few times for school and different jobs, all within the state. Also I know sometimes addresses can show up that aren't residences but maybe locations where credit card bills were sent for work.

edited to add: or maybe where credit card bills were sent that he was trying to hide from his wife
 

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