Okay, this is a really long thread and I can't remember everything I wanted to quote, so I'm just going to post my opinions.
IIRC, SA is asking that the pictures not be reproduced or sold. Do you think this has anything to do with the comment they made after Dr. Lee showed pictures on NG (I think that was the show)?
It could also be that they don't want pictures "leaked" and then have the defense state that SA leaked the photos and compromised the case. Yes, defense can take their own pictures, but then they wouldn't be able to claim that SA let them out. Make sense? Just a possible thought....
Lastly, I agree with other posters who have mentioned it's not about the A's needing time to grieve, it's about the fact most people do not have the luxury to grieve for this long. Some jobs will allow an extended leave of absence, but even then it's not at full pay. I'm not sure if someone has a Long Term Disability plan if they would be able to use that at this time, but again, it's not at full pay. While it would be nice to have ample time to grieve, society does not allow it. Heck, I was in grad school when my dad passed. It was two days before my final exam, and he'd been in the hospital for close to a month and in Hospice for a week. My exam was scheduled for Monday. The viewing was Tuesday, the funeral Wednesday. I asked my professor if I could take the exam at a later date. She let me take it Friday. And this was a counseling program!!