Just starting reading through the thread as the disappearance has intrigued me - I’m a little younger than SM but also live in Australia and go on walks and hikes by myself fairly often. Here are my thoughts thus far:
I am also finding the husband very distanced, the language he uses doesn’t show any emotional connection to his wife. I get that men are out of touch with their feelings and don’t want to appear soft however not showing any emotion whatsoever I find extreme when the partner is missing
However my POV on a few of other things that have come up:
- Wedding rings - lots of people don’t wear theirs anymore for multiple reasons as some have stated. Isolated ok, but in connection with the absolute lack of emotions, this likely does point to marital issues IMO
- Outfit worn by hubby during interview - this is standard attire for many Aussie men, shirt was ironed and clean, don’t see anything wrong with it
- Husband not knowing when to expect SM back home, that she would shower before brunch etc- my husband honestly has no idea of my schedule sometimes. Even if I tell him I’m going out for food with friends, he often forgets etc. I don’t think it’s unusual for the husband to not be fully aware of SM’s schedule
- Theory that SM has run away - find that extremely unlikely. In this day and age people seperate all the time, it’s somewhat accepted in society. I very much doubt that SM would ever leave her children behind, especially seeing the daughter make an appeal showed that mum and daughter are close IMO
- Timing of contacting police - I went through the same scenario in my head as to what my husband would do if I didn’t come home from a walk / run or if my friends told him I didn’t come to an agreed brunch after he knew I went for a walk. He would try to call me several times, see if he can use the “find my iphone” feature and then he would probably contact my parents and go to the track where he would expect me to be to see if they can find me anywhere. Only after exhausting all these avenues would he call the police. The husband seems super chilled so it’s somewhat strange that he didn’t take these steps first and already alerted the police at 11 JMO