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Wonder why they skipped Windows 9?? :waitasec: And the other bold - that's why my Huz doesn't want Win10, you can't pick what you want updated on your computer. So we shall see. Good til 2020!! I'll probably have a new laptop anyway!



or incarcerated!! :jail:

well... talked with my bro this morning, plus just received an email from my sister after she talked with Terre. My bro didn't know too much about the biopsy results, so I waited to tell you all when I heard from my sister. Doesn't sound good... :tears:
my comments in blue.

Hi All,
We just talked to Terre.
The good news: The cancer has not progressed into his stomach. The bleeding was a result of the tumors in the liver pushing on the stomach. But they have been able to stop the bleeding. The nasogastric tube that was placed to relieve pressure in his stomach has been removed. They said he could eat today, and he ate some popcicles. He may be released home tomorrow. Rather than referring him to the UCLA cancer center, they are referring him to a clinic in Santa Clarita. they live near there And, the treatment is going to be oral chemo pills similar to what Monik is taking.
The kind of cancer is Hepatocellular carcinoma. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Hepatocellular_carcinoma
The medication is Sorafenib. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sorafenib
The bad news: As Jr told Ligit, the cancer has metastasized, to his lungs he told me this morning and it is so advanced that he is not eligible for a transplant. However they did not tell them what stage it is at. (As you know, generally cancer is staged from I to IV, IV being the worst.) In response to Monika’s question “Did they give him a Life Expectancy estimate?”, Terre said “They did, but I don’t want to put a number on it. We want him to celebrate his 63rd birthday”. he just celebrated his 62nd in May So it sounds like the doctors are indicating less than a year. The Wikipedia article says the disease is usually deadly within 3 to 6 months. And the doctors are talking more about “Quality of Life” than about treatment.
That’s all from here for now.


:tears: haven't read the links to what kind of cancer; sort of scared to! :eek:

off to read my book :read: see you tomorrow!

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Aw, Niner, I'm so sorry about this news. I guess like you and your family (plus your friends here), I was longing to hear a more hopeful diagnosis/prognosis. What a tough thing to have to deal with. My heart aches for you...
 
Oh Niner, I am so sorry about your brother. When there is metastasis to a major organ, that is usually indicative of Stage IV. Hopefully the Santa Clarita clinic can hook Terre up with support services like hospice.

My MIL had Stage IV Bladder Cancer and I had a long talk with my DH MD about her quality of life vs quantity in regards to chemo. She didn't tolerate the first line chemo drug, so they tried a third tier chemo drug which just made her nauseous and her hair fell out. It was hard for my DH to not encourage everything to be done as he walked that fine line between physician and son. It was not easy.

The one thing we cling to is hope and I hope that your brother can live out the rest of his days in peace with little pain. Please keep us updated as to how he does. We are here for you. Xo
 
Evening my barbarians friends - in 1939 the Beer Barrel Polka hits #1 on the pop singles chart by Will Glahe.

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Niner, you don't have to be strong with us. You feel free to come here and cry, vent, or rejoice .... whatever way your thoughts take you we will be here to hold you through whatever lies ahead. Some days we just need a tear or two to move on. It is a pleasure to share this journey with you, my friend. I hope your brother can be kept comfortable, and just maybe his miracle will arrive.

In pain and sorrow, through laughter and tears, we will be together, my sweet Niner. "therethere".
 
1937 - The former King OF England King Edward VIII of Great Britain and Northern Ireland marries Wallis Warfield Simpson, the American divorcee for whom he abdicated the British throne in December.


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Oh Niner, I am so sorry about your brother. When there is metastasis to a major organ, that is usually indicative of Stage IV. Hopefully the Santa Clarita clinic can hook Terre up with support services like hospice.

My MIL had Stage IV Bladder Cancer and I had a long talk with my DH MD about her quality of life vs quantity in regards to chemo. She didn't tolerate the first line chemo drug, so they tried a third tier chemo drug which just made her nauseous and her hair fell out. It was hard for my DH to not encourage everything to be done as he walked that fine line between physician and son. It was not easy.

The one thing we cling to is hope and I hope that your brother can live out the rest of his days in peace with little pain. Please keep us updated as to how he does. We are here for you. Xo


My older sister had stage 4 lung cancer-spread to her spine and liver (possibly kidneys)--she also had something with her brain-- they did do some radiation on her brain and she also took some pills for the chemo--it really did her quality of life done to bed and nothing but bed. I often wonder if her life would have been better without the chemo--(the added stress from ex husband and children didn't help). She was a mess towards the end.
She was diagnosed in later part of May/early June (?) and she passed 8-14, almost a year to the date that my mom passed. (the next August we had mom's bff sister pass with her husband--August again) I strongly believe you do need to measure quality of life vs. chemo --- Hope this makes some sense --
 
I never really liked this song.


1967 - "It was the third of June, another sleepy, dusty delta day," as Billie Joe McAllister jumps off the Tallahatchee Bridge, when Bobbie Gentry sings, "Ode To Billie Joe."



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My older sister had stage 4 lung cancer-spread to her spine and liver (possibly kidneys)--she also had something with her brain-- they did do some radiation on her brain and she also took some pills for the chemo--it really did her quality of life done to bed and nothing but bed. I often wonder if her life would have been better without the chemo--(the added stress from ex husband and children didn't help). She was a mess towards the end.
She was diagnosed in later part of May/early June (?) and she passed 8-14, almost a year to the date that my mom passed. (the next August we had mom's bff sister pass with her husband--August again) I strongly believe you do need to measure quality of life vs. chemo --- Hope this makes some sense --

My oldest sister took her brother in law in last August after he had a heart attack. He also has COPD and emphysena, and found out two weeks ago that he has stage three throat cancer. We now add his Dr. appointments in our weekly schedule of who we're picking up or dropping off from until we get back about 4:00 to finish dinner by six. He's seeing four dr.'s and a dentist in the next month. He's having a feeding tube inserted next week, and they'll start chemo and radiation. He is attached to his oxygen machine 24/7 and still smokes. If he decides to go with chemo and radiation can his body handle any more stress? if he chooses to not have anything else done, he might last six more months.

In ways it's strange for us to care for him. My middle sister went steady with him in 1964, and my oldest sister married his oldest brother two years later. They will celebrate their fiftieth wedding anniversary in October.
 
So much sadness on the thread since I was here yesterday :( I do wish there was more I could say or do. Wish I had a way with words of wisdom letting you know how my heart aches for you. All I can do is pray. God Bless!


(((((Hugs))))) Niner, Zuri, LinasK
 
And now to make you think....

10 Mind-Blowing Theories That Will Change Your Perception of the World

Reality is not as obvious and simple as we like to think. Some of the things that we accept as true at face value are notoriously wrong. Scientists and philosophers have made every effort to change our common perceptions of it. The 10 examples below will show you what I mean.




1. Great glaciation.

Great glaciation is the theory of the final state that our universe is heading toward. The universe has a limited supply of energy. According to this theory, when that energy finally runs out, the universe will devolve into a frozen state. Heat energy produced by the motion of the particles, heat loss, a natural law of the universe, means that eventually this particle motion will slow down and, presumably, one day everything will stop.

2. Solipsism.

Solipsism is a philosophical theory, which asserts that nothing exists but the individual’s consciousness. At first it seems silly – and who generally got it into his head completely deny the existence of the world around us? Except when you put your mind to it, it really is impossible to verify anything but your own consciousness.

Don’t you believe me? Think a moment and think of all the possible dreams that you have experienced in your life. Is it not possible that everything around you is nothing but an incredibly intricate dream? But we have people and things around us that we cannot doubt, because we can hear, see, smell, taste and feel them, right? Yes, and no. People who take LSD, for example, say that they can touch the most convincing hallucinations, but we do not claim that their visions are “reality”. Your dreams simulate sensations as well, after all, what you perceive is what different sections of your brain tell you to.

As a result, which parts of existence can we not doubt? None. Not the chicken we ate for dinner or the keyboard beneath our fingers. Each of us can only be sure in his own thoughts.

3. Idealist Philosophy

George Berkeley, the father of Idealism, argued that everything exists as an idea in someone’s mind. Berkley discovered that some of his comrades considered his theory stupid. The story goes that one of his detractors kicked a stone with his eyes closed and said, “There I’ve disproved it!”

The idea being that if the stone really only exists in his imagination, he could not have kicked it with his eyes closed. Refutation of Berkeley is hard to understand, especially in these days. He argued that there is an omnipotent and omnipresent God, who sees all and all at once. Realistic, or not?

4. Plato and Logos.

reality illusionEverybody has heard of Plato. He is the world’s most famous philosopher. Like all philosophers he had a few things to say about reality. He argued that beyond our perceived reality there lies a world of “perfect” forms. Everything that we see is just a shade, an imitation of how things truly are. He argued that by studying philosophy we have a chance of catching a glimpse of how things truly are, of discovering the perfect forms of everything we perceive.

In addition to this stunning statement, Plato, being a monist, said that everything is made of a single substance. Which means (according to him) that diamonds, gold and dog feces all consist of the same basic material, but in a different form, which, with science’s discovery of atoms and molecules, has been proven true to an extent.

5. Presentism.

Time is something that we perceive as a matter of course, if we view it at the moment, we usually divide it into past, present and future. Presentism argues that the past and the future are imagined concepts, while only the present is real.




In other words, today’s breakfast and every word of this article will cease to exist after you have read it, until you open it again. The future is just as imaginary, because time cannot exist before and after it happened, as claimed by St. Augustine.

6. Eternalism.

Enternalism is the exact opposite of presentism. This is a philosophical theory that says that time is multi-layered. It can be compared to a pound cake (however, unlike the time, a biscuit is not up for philosophical debate). All time exists simultaneously, but the measurement is determined by the observer. What he sees depends on which point he is looking at.

Thus dinosaurs, World War II and Justin Bieber all exist simultaneously but can only be observed from a specific location. If one takes this view of reality then the future is hopeless and the deterministic free will is illusory.

7. The Brain in a Jar

The “brain in a jar” thought experiment is a question discussed by thinkers and scientists, who, like most people, believe that human’s understanding of reality depends solely on his subjective feelings.

So, what is the debate? Imagine that you are just a brain in a jar that is run by aliens or mad scientists. How would you know? And can you truly deny the possibility that this is your reality?

This is a modern interpretation of the Cartesian evil demon problem. This thought experiment leads to the same conclusion: we cannot confirm the actual existence of anything except our consciousness. If this seems to sound reminiscent of the movie “The Matrix“, it is only because this idea was part of the very basis of the story. Unfortunately, in reality we have no red pills…

8. The Multiverse Theory

multiverse realityAnyone who has not spent the last ten years on a desert island, has at least once heard of “the multiverse”, or parallel universes. As many of us have seen, parallel words, in theory, are worlds very similar to ours, with little (or in some cases, large) changes or differences. The multiverse theory speculates that there could exist an infinite number of these alternate realities.

What’s the point? In a parallel reality you have already killed the dinosaurs, and you are lying under the ground at a depth of eight feet (because that’s what happened there.) In the other you might be a powerful dictator. In another you might never have even been born since your parents never met. Now that’s a memorable image.

9. Fictional realism.

This is the most fascinating branch of multiverse theory. Superman is real. Yes, some of you would probably choose a different story, for argument’s sake, Harry Potter might be real too. This branch of the theory argues that given an infinite number of universes, everything must exist somewhere. So, all of our favorite fiction and fantasy may be descriptive of an alternate universe, one where all the right pieces came in to place to make it happen.

10. Phenomenalism.

Everyone is interested in what happens to things when we aren’t looking at them. Scientists have carefully studied this problem and some of them came to a simple conclusion – they disappear. Well, not quite like this. Phenomenalist philosophers believe that objects only exist as a phenomenon of consciousness. So, your laptop is only here while you are aware of, and believe in its existence, but when you turn away from it, it ceases to exist until you or someone else interacts with it. There is no existence without perception. This is the root of phenomenalism
http://www.learning-mind.com/10-mind-blowing-theories-that-will-change-your-perception-of-the-world/
 
??DID YOU KNOW??

A.The fairy tale Snow White and the Seven Dwarfs was actually based on cocaine. The 7 Dwarfs are 7side effects of the drug.
B.Listening to music at high volume influences the sense of sight, so usually we lower the music when looking for something.
C.Research showed that in 91% of cases when someone writes LOL in reality he is not laughing.
D.Einstein’s IQ was 160. The one of Marilyn Monroe was 168.
E.The first person who passed over the Niagara Falls died because of having slipped on an orange peel.
F.Sleep study showed that those who sleep with lots of pillows usually suffer from loneliness and depression.

1.If we reduced the world population to 100 people, the ratio would be: 57 Asians, 21 Europeans, 14 North Americans and 8 Africans.
2.Study showed that right-handed people live on average 9 years longer than left-handed people.
3.Sleeping in a cold room increases the chance of seeing a nightmare.
4.According to psychological studies, people with IQ above average are more likely to remain faithful to their relationship.
5.The so called “butterflies in the stomach” we have when seeing someone we like in fact are a stress response induced by adrenaline.
6.Some researchers argue that since the Mayan calendar does not consider leap years, our world had to end sooner than the theory of 2012 supports.
7.If Bill Gates threw a hundred dollar bill on the floor, he would have earned twice as much money before having stooped down to pick it up.
8.Addiction on Facebook or Twitter causes brain changes similar to those observed in cocaine addicts.
9.The girlfriend of the founder of the dating site Match.com left him for someone she met through Match.com.
 
Wrapping loving and comforting thoughts into this hug for all my Sidebar friends who have hit a bump on this path called life. :therethere:


CoffeeJ, your gif/images (or whatever they are called) are so wonderful. I can never pick just a few to be my favorites. You speak in pics, friend. Thank you for the time you put in to getting them here.
 
Wrapping loving and comforting thoughts into this hug for all my Sidebar friends who have hit a bump on this path called life. :therethere:


CoffeeJ, your gif/images (or whatever they are called) are so wonderful. I can never pick just a few to be my favorites. You speak in pics, friend. Thank you for the time you put in to getting them here.

Thanks :) I love making these and sharing. They are called Digital Graphics/Art.

Need go and take my Little Bubby to the groomer. He is dirty and his hair is frightful!! :pullhair:
 
Thanks :) I love making these and sharing. They are called Digital Graphics/Art.

Need go and take my Little Bubby to the groomer. He is dirty and his hair is frightful!! :pullhair:

They sure put a smile on my face, my sweet friend cj. ((HUG))

Oh Niner...wish you had gotten better news. :( Huge ((HUG)) for you.

My neighbor was diagnosed with late stage lung cancer last October; they told her without chemo she might make Christmas. She had the chemo and she's still up and about, messing around her yard, driving her car, going out to eat with her family....she's all bloated and lost her hair, but she's hanging in there and seems to relish every day. So you never know.
 
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It's been 7 years: RIP sweet Travis :candle:

6/04/2008

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Kelly has a few words for that "person" in Florida:

Caylee Anthony We Will Not Forget You Or The ***** That Killed You

http://reallybigmeandog.com/2015/06...-not-forget-you-or-the-*****-that-killed-you/
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Casey Anthony in talks with NBC for first interview since acquittal

"...Sources confirmed to Page Six that Anthony then met with NBC News’ top booker, Matt Zimmerman, at the Peacock Network’s 30 Rock headquarters. Zimmerman is the senior booking producer for “Today,” but insiders say he oversees a booking unit that also works across all NBC News shows...."

http://pagesix.com/2015/06/02/casey-anthony-in-talks-with-nbc-for-first-interview-since-acquittal/
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Casey Anthony Reportedly in Talks with NBC for TV Deal

"...Now, Page Six’s Emily Smith reports that Anthony met with a “top booker” at the news network. The company declined to comment, but Smith reports that an unnamed source told her “News divisions meet with people in the news all the time — as of now, nothing is planned.”

Except Anthony isn’t in the news, and hasn’t been for years — the only potential news value here is a big, tell-all, “breaking her silence” type sitdown where she insists once again to a different audience that she didn’t kill her daughter...."

http://jezebel.com/casey-anthony-reportedly-in-talks-with-nbc-for-tv-deal-1708685155
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UPDATE:

No Casey Anthony interview on horizon, despite meeting with NBC News producers: sources

"Casey Anthony may finally be ready to tell her side of the story — but so far she can't get anyone to listen....

But a top NBC executive told the News,"There are no plans to do an interview or anything else with Casey Anthony," ..."

http://www.nydailynews.com/entertai...met-nbc-producers-interview-article-1.2245005
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:floorlaugh::floorlaugh::floorlaugh:

So- who wants to listen to lies coming out of the lying-liar's mouth. :ignore:

:hilarious:
 
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