I don't agree. :floorlaugh:
Just kidding.
Seriously... your take on it may be that I don't offer specifics and that I'm indifferent, but that's not how I see it. I've posted reasons why I agree with the verdicts and would have voted the same way, but I don't see any point to going on and on about it. So sometimes I post more generally, just because. At this point, I know all of the arguments for and against every piece of evidence and rehashing the specifics isn't all that fascinating to me.
But in the end it probably all comes down to how each of us views the internet, discussion boards, and this board in particular. I just see the internet as one great big learning place, kind of like a cross between a huge library and a talk show. Before the internet, I used to physically go to the library and read up on all different opinions about issues and current events. I used to watch CourtTV back in the 90s and what I most enjoyed was seeing how their different commentators and analysts would look at the evidence presented in court that day and not always agree on what it meant. I still like listening to radio talk shows (not the politcal ones, just regular talk shows) and hearing all the different views on a subject. I use the internet the same way. I like to see all the different ways people react to the same thing, whether it's evidence in a trial or opinions about a hot topic. I've never felt the need to convince others to think the same way I do, or to come out the victor in a debate. I just like reading what someone says and thinking, 'Oh, I never thought of it that way', or 'Yes, that makes sense' or 'No, I don't agree with that'. I'll defend my positions to a point, but that's not the most interesting thing about participating on discussion boards for me.
Sometimes things frustrate or annoy me on message boards, including this one, but the annoyance doesn't come from hearing different opinions or realizing that not everyone agrees with me.
To me, a point of view I don't agree with is an opportunity to try on a new hat, try out a new point of view.
Where I get frustrated (and this is my own problem) is when I spend some brain glucose to think through my "side" and present it, and hope the alternate POV will do the same. I'm replying to your post but do not mean to single YOU out in particular. But I'm chomping for some serious "shooting back" at me, TELL me, give me what you are thinking about the facts and how you put them together and why.
Perhaps I am not adequately recognizing that when it happens. But like others, I feel very disappointed when "just my opinion" or "it's just how I see it" is the "answer".
I don't believe that "how I see it" is all that relevant (I'm talking about me, how Peteygirl sees it). And I definitely put no significance on someone else's "opinion", including when they agree with me
. I believe I see it through many eyes, not simply my own. I see it through the eyes of the CSIs, the detectives and the prosecutors who knit the story together, and ONLY happen to concur with 98%, a healthy majority, of their conclusions. I'm a hanger-on, an observer. Any personal contribution of my own is immaterial.
When you say "I don't see how the DA proved Casey had any culpability in the death of her daughter" I want to hear WHY, and when I come back, go deeper just like I'm doing.
I am genuinely curious, and actually respect POVs different than my own.
I don't feel as though people who don't share my POV "don't get it". That's because I am not so sure that I myself "get it" 100%.
I enjoy a good debate, where there is mutual respect, and personal stuff is at a minimum. No one is accused of being stupid or wrong. Give me your best shot, I love it! If I am offensive, I am very willing to retract or examine myself and then retract.
OF COURSE I think you and other folks who agree with the jury are wrong wrong wrong. But I'm sure you are all intelligent, well meaning folks. Just perhaps missing a few important details? I'm not convinced you are, and I'm willing to hear your side of things.
I am completely willing to be proved WRONG. I have been, plenty of times, when I felt very convinced LOL!!
And of course this trial is completely over and nothing I say or think of is going to make a dam bit of difference. I will experience NO personal satisfaction from changing anyone's mind but MY OWN.