As for the date thing with her saying the 9th she might have had a wrong date but she sure kept saying 31 days over and over isn't it just possible that if you don't have a real job don't have to pay bills so you don't know what day the rent is due 1 date is as good as another I mean why would you keep the 9th seperate from the 15th? this is my thinking I know when mom paid the bills all I kept up with was when was FRiday.You are correct. It is the "My confusion and disintegration forced me to pole dance" defense.
JMO