I just wanted to pop in and thank everyone for their insight and updates to the trail as it is going on. I will admit, I do think Brad is guilty BUUUUT, I also think the prosecution hasn't given enough for the jurors to not have reasonable doubt about his guilt. I am hoping as the trail continues they are able to really tie everything together.
I did want to mention, as I read through and saw the posts regarding the separation agreement, there were some who felt it was 'greedy' etc. As a divorced person in NC, the first agreement is always the first step in negotiation. Had Brad gotten an attorney, his lawyer would have changed a lot. My ex and I had 3 different agreements that went back and forth. We were not in a situation to have a mediator. My ex had a girlfriend, who felt that she could discuss what I 'should' get after several children and years taking care of the homefront. His attorney returned an agreement that gave me LESS than what the State mandated for Child Support, no alminoy, no 50% of assets etc. By all accounts, his return was equally as unfair. In the end, we did meet in the middle so everyone was in agreeance. I also wanted to mention, he is required to pay for the children's transportation back and forth. Not for me, only the children. The kids, always flew as unaccompanied minors. The reason for this was soley because I was staying in the same area as the children and he moves a bit for his job. It was a negotiation tool, I did not seek alimony and in return he paid their expenses back and forth to his location. I guess, what I am trying to say that a lot of is being said about this agreement and honestly, I don't think any of it would have stayed the same. Basically her attorney was seeing how badly Brad wanted out of the relationship. Who could have known he was going to go this route, instead of seeking an attorney who had HIS interests at heart. Also, there has been discussion re: the Life Insurance. Initially, in my first agreement, my attorney did ask to keep me as beneficiary for the policy. She did tell me that wouldn't stand, but it was to put my ex and his attorney on notice that the policy was in 'play' as it were. In the end, they wanted the policy out and on the third an final agreement they agreed to keeping the policy, with it in trust being held by his sister (who is an attorney) btw should anything happen to him.
In the end, I can visualize the conversation between Nancy and her attorney because of my own experience. Most likely, Nancy was told that she should find the few things that were not negotiable and the other things, i.e., the Life Insurance Policy and who was to inherit, will be negotiable. Most likely, since she wanted to go to Canada with the children that was something not negotiable for her. So, her attorney most likely threw as much financials in there so when it came time for the negotiation process, Brad would concentrate on keeping as much of the money as he could and release the children and let them live in Canada with their mother. In this, I think Nancy knew exactly what Brad cared about most, his financials. From my experience and those of my divorced friends, I truly believe that the final agreement would have looked nothing like this one.
Kelly
I did want to mention, as I read through and saw the posts regarding the separation agreement, there were some who felt it was 'greedy' etc. As a divorced person in NC, the first agreement is always the first step in negotiation. Had Brad gotten an attorney, his lawyer would have changed a lot. My ex and I had 3 different agreements that went back and forth. We were not in a situation to have a mediator. My ex had a girlfriend, who felt that she could discuss what I 'should' get after several children and years taking care of the homefront. His attorney returned an agreement that gave me LESS than what the State mandated for Child Support, no alminoy, no 50% of assets etc. By all accounts, his return was equally as unfair. In the end, we did meet in the middle so everyone was in agreeance. I also wanted to mention, he is required to pay for the children's transportation back and forth. Not for me, only the children. The kids, always flew as unaccompanied minors. The reason for this was soley because I was staying in the same area as the children and he moves a bit for his job. It was a negotiation tool, I did not seek alimony and in return he paid their expenses back and forth to his location. I guess, what I am trying to say that a lot of is being said about this agreement and honestly, I don't think any of it would have stayed the same. Basically her attorney was seeing how badly Brad wanted out of the relationship. Who could have known he was going to go this route, instead of seeking an attorney who had HIS interests at heart. Also, there has been discussion re: the Life Insurance. Initially, in my first agreement, my attorney did ask to keep me as beneficiary for the policy. She did tell me that wouldn't stand, but it was to put my ex and his attorney on notice that the policy was in 'play' as it were. In the end, they wanted the policy out and on the third an final agreement they agreed to keeping the policy, with it in trust being held by his sister (who is an attorney) btw should anything happen to him.
In the end, I can visualize the conversation between Nancy and her attorney because of my own experience. Most likely, Nancy was told that she should find the few things that were not negotiable and the other things, i.e., the Life Insurance Policy and who was to inherit, will be negotiable. Most likely, since she wanted to go to Canada with the children that was something not negotiable for her. So, her attorney most likely threw as much financials in there so when it came time for the negotiation process, Brad would concentrate on keeping as much of the money as he could and release the children and let them live in Canada with their mother. In this, I think Nancy knew exactly what Brad cared about most, his financials. From my experience and those of my divorced friends, I truly believe that the final agreement would have looked nothing like this one.
Kelly