I wanted to make an observation about MY's "meddling" family, too. I'd already observed that JY invited his sister-in-law to meddle via mediating. But testimony has show that Michelle obviously relied heavily on her both her mom and her sister, people who loved her dearly. IMO she relied heavily on them because that pitiful excuse of a husband of hers couldn't be counted on for help or support or assistance with anything. She was the only adult in that family, and its hard to run it all on your own - much less with someone working actively against you. Dang straight she needed the help, and its to her mom's credit that she was willing to spend her time and money in such a fashion. Daughter needed her, bam, she was there. End of story.
The actual email should be up at WRAL soon, if it isn't already, and everyone can read it and judge it for themselves.
I heard it as someone who was trying to make Michelle understand that
it was making things more difficult for them with her Mother's constant
interference and long visits.
I also get that LF had just retired, so she had more time, and I understand that too., and CY being her first grandchild...:heart:
But, anyone in a relationship or marriage knows that an extended house~ stay of anyone, whether a friend or family member can get old real fast.
Jason may not have wanted a child at first, but we are not going to hear from one person in this courtroom, last time or this time, that he was not a good Dad after she was born.
JMO
While the email JY sent to his wife probably doesn't do much harm, I will say that was one long-winded dude. His complaining and comparing and general 'tude went on for more than 2 whole pages. What a tool.
However, the most important information from that particular witness (Jennifer Powers) is that Michelle's slayer did not want the baby (CY), he wanted MY to get an abortion, and he threatened that he would "hold it against both of them for the rest of their lives if she didn't get an abortion."
Someday CY will read about what her father said. He is a vile, hateful killer.
While the email JY sent to his wife probably doesn't do much harm, I will say that was one long-winded dude. His complaining and comparing and general 'tude went on for more than 2 whole pages. What a tool.
However, the most important information from that particular witness (Jennifer Powers) is that Michelle's slayer did not want the baby (CY), he wanted MY to get an abortion, and he threatened that he would "hold it against both of them for the rest of their lives if she didn't get an abortion."
Someday CY will read about what her father said. He is a vile, hateful killer.
With or without LF, his primary issue was Michelle, he used LF just as another weapon against Michelle, IMO. He was a selfish, childish, rude and a mentally abusive man and with LF around, he wouldn't be able to get away with the crap he put through Michelle through. Don't forget he was having an affair and with LF around he wouldn't be able to get away with all he was getting away with.
Yes, but LF wasn't helping matters any, either.
Not that I blame her, MY was her daughter and CY her grandchild.
But, I still need proof he killed her.
Remember, it took 3 years just to get an arrest, L E must have been hung up on some of the things I am........
JMO
I feel all this attention on JY's email complaining about his MIL is creating a one sided picture of him. Let's introduce some balance and show the loving side of his emails:
"missing you so much got a nice beer buzz [snip]
i feel lucky just to know you, much less love you, but i do."
Oops! That's to his mistress. Well, I'm sure he was much nicer to his wife. Let's see:
"I just got home and the *advertiser censored* power is out, I called progress and a crew is already out. Cass pissed herself all over the floor, its hot as hell inside and I cant entertain her enough w/o tv to finish the godamn yard. I am taking beer and her to pool. I am in a mood that makes our trip to myrtle seem mild, pray the beer kicks in. I could kill u for not letting me finish the yard this morning"
No issues with this guy. Just a regular guy trying to overcome his MIL's intrusiveness.
Just a regular guy who wishes he wasn't married (motive), wishes he didn't have kids, wishes he had more money (motive), had a history of violence against women (inclination), had deep-seated anger toward his wife (motive), never asked if there was progress in the investigation of his wife's murder, and gave up his daughter rather than risk incriminating himself for the crime he committed.
The problem with proof is that for some people, unless there's a video of the perp committing the murder or the perp loudly proclaims "I did it! I really, really did it," or there's a trail of dripping blood leading from the victim right to the hands of the murderer and he better be holding the bloody weapon in his hand, there is never enough proof.
And the inclination for some (perhaps many) people is to look at each piece of circumstantial evidence separately and to come up with an explanation about it that makes it innocent in their mind. That's not the way to evaluate C.E., but people still persist.
The problem with proof is that for some people, unless there's a video of the perp committing the murder or the perp loudly proclaims "I did it! I really, really did it," or there's a trail of dripping blood leading from the victim right to the hands of the murderer and he better be holding the bloody weapon in his hand, there is never enough proof.
And the inclination for some (perhaps many) people is to look at each piece of circumstantial evidence separately and to come up with an explanation about it that makes it innocent in their mind. That's not the way to evaluate C.E., but people still persist.
That's it in a nutshell. I believe he did it, but it needs to be proven. I hope the trial generates a clean verdict this time, G or NG (but I'd, IMO, prefer the G).