I will state the same whether you are 2 or 102.
Some individuals are very good eyewitnesses, others are not.
I as well am interested in this as I was shot by my biological father at a very young age.
I vaguely remember the gun. I recall no pain etc.
What I did keep getting was a recurring image of a grandfatherly type and being in the HUGE chair in which I recall my feet did not reach the end of the chair in a smelly room. Over the years I kept questioning my mother about it and she simply had no idea what it could possibly be.
It was actually an aunt that said hold it you were taken into the judges chambers and he spoke to you for about 2 hours.
My industrious aunt made inquiries and we now feel that that part may be partial memories of speaking to the judge.
The rest others have had to fill in for me so my memory is as reliable as what they have told me.
We have a 2 year old child, an age where suggestions can become ideas and imagination is bigger than reality. We have a 2 year old child that attended a daycare swarming with media and she was apparently unaware of what was being said about what happened to her mom. She was observed enacting a scenario between two dollhouse figures where the larger figure spanked the smaller figure for biting. Everything turned red. That sounds pretty real.
What you wrote is mindboggling ...