Pirplegrl, honestly, I'm not trying to 'convert' you to RDI. Honestly!!!
Let's think together. Ramseys were married for awile. Parenting two lovely childrens: boy and girl. Becomes rich and famouse practicaly by themself, with a little help by Patsy's parents. Church goers, God believers. Have clean history, no criminal offends, no police records. Great house, nice friends....True America's success story. What could went wrong to associate such a peacefull family with such tragic event? What could transform intellegent people into monsters?.....
Are these your thoughts?...because these thoughts were mine at the beginning, 16 years ago!
I was trying to find explanation by hoping it's Santa Clause and his wife; hoping that JAR could have time to fly in and out from Boulder, hoping that one of their close friend was involved, hoping that JB grand-father is monster...I have no doubts that this was 'inside job'. But why???
At the begining, the image of the gorgeous girl with the rope on her neck and cracked head has devastated me to the point that I was searching for look alike murders in other countries to get some kind of common 'profile': MOA. I found nothing remotely close to this murder. The context of RN makes me smile. It was so damn childish in contrast with the brutality of the murder itself.
Would you agree with me that context/tone of RN and brutality of the murder do not match each other? That there was DISCONNECT?
And after, I realized that whatever is hidden must be the true reason.
SEX, MOLESTATION, PERVERT desire....I'll continue...I don't want this to be monolog. I really want to talk WITH you. I want to hear your thoughts...and let's not talk about theory yet...let's just 'spill the guts out' like friends do...OK?....I'll be waiting, with respect....
In IDI theory...
I have a very hard time with Patsy's lack of concern over the root cause of JBR's chronic vaginal issues and UTIs. We now know JBR was chronically molested by
someone. The internal trauma that left lasting scarring had to have made JBR bleed and obviously cause repeated female issues with her, likely every time she was re-traumatized.
JBR would have had blood streaks/pink tint in her panties over the course of some of her previous molestations, one would think, especially since iirc, there was previous hymenal damage.
So, as a 'good parent', you bathe you child, see their underpants, see/know that she's constantly infected 'down there' and sore, yet the doctor you take her to, the family friend, doesn't look down there to see what the problem might be? You don't bother to ask him to look down there? Why don't you demand he examine her there?
Why would he not look? That's part of the examination one (even a child) would receive before the diagnosis of vaginitis. Did mom tell him not to bother, Jonbenet's too shy, just write a script?
With all these UTI's, why isn't mom or the doc thinking perhaps she should see a urologist?
Why wouldn't mom demand to check her out thoroughly and get to the bottom of this?
That the doctor states he never examined her vaginally really bothers me. Either he didn't because Mama told him not to bother (because of what she knew he might see) or because
he's lying, and then he'd either 1) have to admit he is a poor doctor not to recognize signs of sexual abuse, or 2) have to admit he DID see signs, and never reported it.
I'm still scratching my head how JBR could have had a viginitis diagnosis without her pediatrician examining her vulva/vagina.