Just a little insight into what might be going on with the boys. As a 22 year veteran foster parent I can say with about 99% certainty that the children have been placed in protective custody in a non family member placement. This is done so that the children can be properly interviewed by professionals without any possibility of family influence. What those children say to investigators or even foster care providers over the next few weeks or even months could be detrimental to building a case against SP or even JP. I would expect the children to remain in foster care for at least 90 days and possibly longer. At least they are safe now but I think it will take a very long time before everything comes out.
That scares me. Here in az our foster care system is majorly overloaded. Do they have special foster homes for cases like this.
When I was in WA I worked in a group home for teenage girls with behavior issues that need to be addressed before transitioning to foster care. At that time the resources for that kind of care were greater than the resources for similar services here in AZ. In WA they had an MA who was there monday through friday, worked with us to develop, discuss etc. the girls ITP's. Az had nothing like that. I hope that kind of thing is still available in WA because regular GCC's like me are not at all qualified to do anything even close to the type of attention these boys need without an MA, and we definatly had no business trying to do that kind of questioning.
We could report to the MA if one of the girls talked about it in the corse of a normal day or if our primary talked about it during one on one time. But we could call to staff something if it was something major. I loved working there because working with a team like that I really felt like I was making a difference.
Are there foster families that have that kind of support? Are there special foster parents that are qualified to deal with this type of situation? I'm just worried about the boys if they are being kept from their grandparents it better be worth it because they've just been through so much. And then we monitored family visits because in all those cases the girls came from abusive families. Of course Susan's parents are not abusive but shouldn't they be monitored in case they do or say something during a visit that is related to their mom's disappearance?
Do you think that the boys will get the best treatment possible because the situation is so extreme and high profile? Not like they would be hurt in the home, but they've been through so much already, being placed with strangers is just one more thing for them. It's a kick to my heart to even think about it.
And then it would be hard for Susan's parents too.
I guess even if the boys can't help with the investigation it would be just wonderful knowing that Susan's kids are somewhere safe and secure. Have you ever seen a situation like this and have any idea how this would work, how often it works etc.?
And then when you say protective custody what does that mean? Are we talking about an unknown location or LE protection, because as long as JP is free I really worry about him kidnapping the boys to keep them from talking. I know it sounds extreme but JP and his father have done hideous things and rationalized them.
I hope this nightmare is over for these boys as soon as possible. I pray that they don't have to testify against one of these monsters in court. I can't imagine how terrifying that would be. But if they have information it would really help the jury see JP and his father for what they are. And to see how much they have hurt these innocent little boys.
God bless you for everything you have done, there just aren't enough people out there like you.