WindyCityGirl
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with her father, Henry Savio? I would be interested to know if they were close prior to her marriage to Drew and what their relationship was like while married to Drew.
According to their son, he never met Henry Savio until his mother's funeral. He also claims that his aunts weren't part of his life either, which is not consistent with how Kathleen's sisters describe it. Kathleen's sister Anna describes being present and hearing Drew making degrading comments to Kathleen (vulgar comments like the b word and worse, plus nasty demoralizing remarks about her weight)
I only ask this not of idle curiosity, but I am wondering if Mr. Savio was a victim of familial alienation which is often the case in homes with domestic violence.
Sure, Kathleen may simply not have had a relationship with her father, but coming from family that seemed tight knit that surprised me.
I also wonder if the aunts were kept from the boys after Kathleen's death and if they were too young to remember their aunts being around when they were younger? (or if they were not allowed around the kids?)
I just wonder how much the sisters knew when she was alive and what they did with the information. I wonder how much the father knew while she was alive and what he did with the information.
I am not blaming or calling them out.......please don't misunderstand me.
I am just seeking to understand the dynamics of abuse.
Thomas made the comment that if they knew and didn't do anything about it then it is their fault. Should Rev. Schori have done something with the info that he knew? What did the aunts do about the info that they knew about the abuse of Kathleen? What did the sister of Stacy do?
I just am pondering all of this because I wonder just how powerless or not these people were.....what is the best course of action in a situation like that? IT is a tough call.
I also am wondering how many people that we know and love could be suffering in miserable and potentially dangerous situations and we don't have a clue about it.
I would like to learn from this so that we can empower others as well as ourselves to do more for people. Watching the episode on Nightline last night left me feeling very sad and frustrated........
According to their son, he never met Henry Savio until his mother's funeral. He also claims that his aunts weren't part of his life either, which is not consistent with how Kathleen's sisters describe it. Kathleen's sister Anna describes being present and hearing Drew making degrading comments to Kathleen (vulgar comments like the b word and worse, plus nasty demoralizing remarks about her weight)
I only ask this not of idle curiosity, but I am wondering if Mr. Savio was a victim of familial alienation which is often the case in homes with domestic violence.
Sure, Kathleen may simply not have had a relationship with her father, but coming from family that seemed tight knit that surprised me.
I also wonder if the aunts were kept from the boys after Kathleen's death and if they were too young to remember their aunts being around when they were younger? (or if they were not allowed around the kids?)
I just wonder how much the sisters knew when she was alive and what they did with the information. I wonder how much the father knew while she was alive and what he did with the information.
I am not blaming or calling them out.......please don't misunderstand me.
I am just seeking to understand the dynamics of abuse.
Thomas made the comment that if they knew and didn't do anything about it then it is their fault. Should Rev. Schori have done something with the info that he knew? What did the aunts do about the info that they knew about the abuse of Kathleen? What did the sister of Stacy do?
I just am pondering all of this because I wonder just how powerless or not these people were.....what is the best course of action in a situation like that? IT is a tough call.
I also am wondering how many people that we know and love could be suffering in miserable and potentially dangerous situations and we don't have a clue about it.
I would like to learn from this so that we can empower others as well as ourselves to do more for people. Watching the episode on Nightline last night left me feeling very sad and frustrated........