Hexe
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First let me say that as most relationships, I doubt either of them are without fault.
Now, it appears you are equating mistrust with abuse.
No, I don't. But so extensive lack of trust may be a sign of an abuse.
Consider the evidence.
Okay.
Look at her past pattern. In a dispute, LE was called. I don't recall any of those calls to LE resulted in an abuse charge.
What proves nothing. I know some "model couples" with a living hell hidden behind the closed door.
No abuse reported, her leaving to go to AL, her going back to Signal Mountian, her dropping the kids off at the house (presumably alone) and not calling LE indicates that she was not in fear of abuse.
That does indicate she didn't feel physically endangered. Don't forget though that abuse has many faces. Physical violence is only one of them.
Those things could indicate an unstable person.
Don't think so. It rather seems she tried to secure herself a safe way out of that marriage, placing different necessary things out of her husband's reach. This is pretty coherent and logical behaviour.
If she was in fear for her life, I would expect her to secure the children in a safe place and not the items that she did.
Being abused doesn't always equate to be in fear for your life. This one I know from my own experience.
If she in fear for her life, I would expect her not to return the kids to Signal Mountain. If she was in fear for her life, I would expect her to call LE while in AL.
I don't think she was in fear for her life or thought that her kids were in danger. But lack of such fear doesn't exclude abuse. And I seriously think that she might come back to Signal Mountain because of something her husband did or might do. Pure speculation, of cours, but fits the facts.
Her actions and a lack of finding the Jeep, points to a self disappearance.
Well, if I want to disappear I would take my driver's license and credit cards with me. That would make this dissapearance a lot easier.