No, I don't think that would be okay for me. The process is scary for children, and talking about the situation, which brings up all the emotions in them, is upsetting for them. Even the nicest LEO in the most non-threatening environment would still be upsetting to a child.
The children also need legal protection, and I'm not qualified to do that. That would mean an attorney there also. That increases the scariness and emotional upset for the child.
Things can awry in these situations. I feel capable of recognizing what info LE needs, I would certainly talk with them regularly, and ask their guidance, and I would pass the info along immediately.
What an awful situation it would be to be in.
I agree with you that LE questioning children is an awful prospect and could be very upsetting, but in this case I think it's necessary. I believe in this case, certainly early on, it could have been life or death. It's awful for children to testify in court, too, but when it's essential, it has to be done. We know for a fact that these children, ages 9 and 12, were two of the last known people to see Gail before she disappeared. They are old enough to be aware of what's going on around them. There are answers to questions they could give that few other people could right now. Something they know could be the key to finding out what happened to Gail. To me, it is so important, that it would be necessary. Think of the younger sisters of Elizabeth Smart and Polly Klaas. Sometimes there's no way around it. I also think that LE can do this very carefully without causing too much upset. Also, I don't think the questions they would need to ask in this case are automatically upsetting like in the Klaas/Smart cases. For example, "Do you remember what your mom was wearing on that day you came back?" or "When your mom took you home, did she tell you where she was going when she left?" Most of the questions they would need to ask would be along those lines, I would think, and I believe that can be done by a seasoned LE officer with experience in dealing with children. I would also feel pretty comfortable with their ages. Too much younger and I might tend to agree with you more.
I don't know if it's reasonable to expect of Matt, and much as I hate to admit it, I don't much care.
What's far important to me is what's needed, and what's fair, and what's least impactful, and all the issues, to the missing person (Gail) and to the children and their well-being. Gail needs to be found, and the kids need to be protected.
Matt is low man on this totem pole for me.