From what I understand, the family spoke on her appearance in an effort to stress how immature she is. Then the attorney mentioned how unkempt she looked when she was found (weight loss/dirty.)
Neither instance seemed to advocate for TC. There is a lot of advocating for TC going on elsewhere in MSM and SM. I've seen so many comments they are making my head spin.
Agree--the family is, in conjunction with the lawyer, stressing how young and immature she is. This is (I believe) in an effort to stress and remind public opinion that she is a victim in this case, and to counteract the picture of them running away together, believing themselves to be in a "relationship." When LE comments, however briefly, that they had the appearance of being in a relationship when they were found, that TC was 'consoling her' at his arrest, that scenario presents new challenges to the prosecution. So, to counteract that--as well as to counteract all the advocating for TC locally or in SM, IMO the lawyer is employing a professional tactic to portray in more black and white terms that TC is "bad."
Sure, ET was disheveled and she'd probably lost weight if she had food allergies and they were at the end of their money. So, (in lawyerly thinking), he'll emphasize that. (They did years ago with the Patti Hearst trial, too.) While he's at it, he might then expound...she looks "tiny," she looks "younger than twelve," she is just a "little child!" The family lawyer said all those things...and, in my opinion may have overstated things to the point where his tactics are now appearing too obvious--because what he says is clashing with facts a thinking public can discern with their own eyes (eg. pre-abduction photos, her birthdate).
We know that lawyers rarely expound publicly prior to trial (and generally encourage victims and/or family members also not to comment beyond the "thankful" statement) - UNLESS it will benefit their case. There are no casual, off-the-cuff comments--it's a strategic profession. So it's a bit eyebrow-raising when the family lawyer does expound the day after a victim's recovery, and when that is also followed by intrusive media depictions of the victim's bedroom with stuffed animals and security blanket, accompanied by extremely personal family statements. (We have to know if that was allowed to air, it was with the family lawyer's assent, if not blessing.) We also know (rightly or wrongly) that there is generally more outrage and negative public opinion towards pedophiles than an older man running off with a teen...and lawyers are keenly aware of the subtle workings of shaping public opinion to try to correct the odds in their favor in an attempt to extract justice for their client. The working of that subtle shaping tactic is obvious even in these threads, where some posters are referring to TC as a pedophile, speculating that he IS one simply because the family lawyer has said *he* thought ET looked younger than twelve after she returned to TN. At the most, that's his opinion, and he knows that while stating it...but if a lawyer makes an emphatic statement to the press about an inflammatory opinion, he also knows that some will interpret his opinion as fact simply because he's someone important in the case, a hero because he's advocating for a victim, and the media reported it in a press conference.
I'm trying hard not to portray a value judgment on any of this...it's just the way the system works. I'll admit to feeling sad that so much of ET's privacy is being sacrificed IMO in an ardent attempt to influence public sentiment. And I think it's important, if people are looking for answers and truth, that they read with discernment, weighing fact vs. opinion and keeping a mind open as to what might also be going on strategically when studying public information about a case.
JMO, sorry so wordy.