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My guess is that kids who were in the system and had a poor home life to be taken from their parents, had emotional and behavioral problems, therefore were harder to get to behave than the bio kids.
Good point, and add to that the kids have come from other cultures, plus language barrier. "Respect! My! Authority!" is not a very effective childrearing method when the kid has a steep learning curve and is in a totally new environment, IMO. They're not being "willful" and "sinful", they just need time to understand.
And then there is the sad fact that people aren't always pleased with who they adopted. The monster who adopted Hana Williams was reportedly disappointed when Hana showed up as a young adolescent - they were expecting a younger girl. She pretty much rejected Hana from the start.
Basically, I don't think some people adopt for the right reason. "We very much want a child" is IMO totally different from "we want to save a heathen".
JMO, YMMV, :twocents: