Zuri
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Actually, an advocate for abused women, Murray-Strauss, did a study to confirm some findings and found that there's actually parity in domestic violence, women initiate as often as men (which is often dismissed by the bogus claim women don't do much damage) and where a weapon is used, women do it more. In other words, in trying to confirm some results he found results that made him anathema.
The dynamic of domestic violence is extremely complex and isn't served by the old tropes of sexual politics.
People talk, and rightly so, about how under-reported rape is, and the need to make it less painful and stigmatized for a woman to come forward.
That being the case, it's not hard to imagine how under-reported men as victims of domestic violence is.
And the problem is worsened by the Violence Against Women Act (what's wrong with the "Violence Against People Act?)but all that assumes men = perpetrator and makes it so that should a man report being a victim of domestic violence, he's basically called himself in a reservation at the jail.
I worked on that piece of legislation and that was not the intent of this law. DV was a huge issue and needed to be addressed. The original law was passed mid 90's and a lot more is known now. In the writing of the VAWA, there was a lot of input from DV professionals on both women's, men's and children's abuse and ramifications of the abuse. I was charged with writing the DV protocol for the ER's in the state of Delaware, that was ratified and adopted. Many other states adopted our protocol, inserting their own state laws. The bill also helped strengthen the laws in all states. Was it perfect? No. But it did get the conversation started. Respectfully, JMV