If Arias wanted to "avoid the trauma" of murdering Travis Alexander - wouldn't Arias perhaps "take" to her bed in the days after butchering Travis Alexander? Arias did the opposite of avoiding - she reached out to the police to assist in their homicide investigation - she traveled to attend Travis Alexander's memorial service.
I agree that the defense should not have said Arias went to Travis Alexaner's to pay her respect - in fact, the defense should have just let Dr. Samuels get off of the stand.
I agree that the defense should not have said Arias went to Travis Alexaner's to pay her respect - in fact, the defense should have just let Dr. Samuels get off of the stand.