My biggest problem with Oscar is that he wants to go free without accepting practically any responsibility, nor wrongdoing on his part. Except for the ''honest mistake'', basically a 'noble' one, since he is saying that everything that he did that night - he did to protect Reeva.
And the problem of shooting anyone (even the intruder), through the closed door, being also illegal in SA - well that is something he is also not guilty of because he didn't intend to shoot anyone, right? :facepalm: And this is why he will never admit to even this intend.
And this is what bugs me the most - that he dares to protest his innocence to such a degree. He is not guilty of anything by his own words!!
It is irritating and it is insulting. To Reeva, to her family and friends, and to everybody's common sense. And that makes him the opposite of a Mr. Nice Guy, he would like us all to see him as.
Like somebody here already said - if Oscar really was this nice and good guy, who just made a terrible mistake, then the very least he would WANT to do is to accept his responsibility. And he would certainly not behave, speak, or defend himself in this manner. And he would definitely not be so (almost obnoxiously) stubborn in his avoidance to admitting even the most obvious things. (Like, for example, that his finger must have been on the trigger in Tasha's restaurant!!)
But no, he doesn't do that. He would rather dispute even the elementary laws of physics, than to admit practically any significant wrongdoing of his. Because the only thing that he is really willing to admit to is accidentally making a terrible mistake. But that actually doesn't mean anything; it is not really an admission of any wrongdoing, it is solely admitting that something terrible had happened TO you. Not by you, isn't it? And that is how I see him looking at it, this whole time. And that is what I dislike the most.