My middle son was-a bedwetter. The dr explained that his bladder had not grown and caught up with the rest of his body. We put waterproof padding on the bed. We helped him not feel embarrassed and he did out grow the condition. His now 9 year old also suffered from it and wore good nites to protect the bed. She is now outgrowing it too. We supported our child and helped him not to feel embarrassed, i cant comprehend a parent beating a child for bedwetting.
I think it’s just an excuse they find to indulge their desire to torture some sweet, pure part of themselves. Bed wetting and potty training seem to be handy excuses for these assholes. But so does eating and “lying” and “not staying in bed”.
In short, anything normal that kids go through is an excuse to brutalize these precious angels.
In general, however, I think that the somewhat popular philosophy in America that children must be strictly controlled and punished for “bad” behavior, enables freaks like these an “in” to indulging in their torture fetish.
Adults get angry. Say mean things. Cuss. Lie. They do many things that they absolutely don’t tolerate in their own children, whose brains are much less developed. How can we expect perfect behavior from children whose impulse control centers and ability to understand consequence aren’t developed, when most fully grown adults can’t exhibit such behavior? And then people hit kids for that?
So that overall philosophy is something I think defective people like these freaks use to enable their brutal and violent treatment of their precious kids.
Looking at the photo on the monster’s FB of his little girls- they’re adorable. So sweet. I have a darling little niece and a couple of nephews that age right now. They just want to show you all their silly things in their room. They want to play. They want to be goofy. Have fun. Snuggle.
Thinking of those angel faces and imagining that they could do anything at all that would merit any kind of harsh punishment is impossible.