I can't get this young man out of my head. I haven't been inside a church in over 25 years. Today I went to St. Josephs, to light candles for him and SeahorseLadyDi's son. Both losses touched me deeply. I just didn't know what else to do.
Here's the passengers' story of the event:
http://www.chron.com/disp/story.mpl/front/4939684.html
His parents apparently were not on the cruise with him, which concerns me. Who was he with?
He was with the family of friends, he was 18, he was not CHILD - legally an adult - just graduated from HS. His family could not be everywhere with him forever. He had repeatedly refused counseling and had undergone his like 47th surgery 3 mos ago. He covered up and hid his pain, pretended nothing was wrong. Obviously, there was a lot wrong. So sad.....
"Ritcheson had paid for the cruise trip himself, joining two friends and one of the young men's parents on the vessel."
I don't think there's any way to fully recover from this - psychologically, knowing people exist who can and will do that to you.
But physically, he had a colostomy bag, and I'm sure other issues.
They killed him - it just took awhile.
He needed a bag because these evil perps violently sodomized him.