None of us are perfect.
IF my DD went missing - I would hold back NOTHING. I would get on every TV, radio station, everything and account for every minute.
I would come on here myself and post everything I did, every store I stopped at, every phone call I made, I would scan and post the receipts. I would scan and post every phone record I got off the interent (mine and DD's - including the home phone). I would fess up to everything I did from the last time I saw her - whether it included a happy hour at a bar or a quickie with the guy I was having an affair with (I'm not BTW). I would beg, plead, cry for her to please come home and that if anyone had her to please let her go.
I would hold NOTHING back. I would be truthful and things wouldn't change in midstream.
But the first thing I would do (and I have had to do this with my own DD) is go to the friend's house where she said she would be. I would talk to the friend, I would talk to the parent (or whatever adult was there). I would call 911 and get the police to come to me so they could see the house and go through the phones and not waste time by going to the police station.
As the days progressed and T-shirts were made - EVERY MINUTE OF EVERY DAY I WOULD HAVE A "MY DD" IS MISSING SHIRT ON.
Anyone who would ask me - I would tell them. Where I was, what I was doing, I would account for every minute - even if it put me in a bad light. Spill it.
I just don't see BD doing this. She aviods questions, talks in circles, says she loves the suspect, I haven't heard her account for every minute from Sunday night at 10 PM when Hailey was in her room watching TV. She has changed her story. First, she went straight to the police station and now she came home, checked a few places, then went to police. Thing is - she didn't go to MB's. We know that. MB's mother was quoted as saying she never met BD and the first time she every saw her was when BD appeared on NG.
It is going on over 3 weeks and now, tonight, we find out that there was a text from BD/Hailey's phone at 2 PM - which is crucial to the timeline? WHY?
BD has talked in circles about the slasher movies/printed out 258 pages of serial killers herself - called it a hobby/ admitted finally tonight that she knew of the masks. Why is it like pulling teeth to get information out of her? Important information that is vitally needed to find Hailey.
Why didn't BD come out in the very begining and say "hey, I know SA has some strange hobbies and we all like to watch slasher movies." ? No, instead we get dribbles and drabs, a little here a little there.
I can't, I don't understand. How can we help find Hailey if we don't get truthful, accurate information to go off of?
Ok - that's it. I think I'm done.
Gonna sit on my hands for now and pray for Hailey.