When specifically asked whether Mom knew about James and Holli having sex, Holli said yes, Mom told her not to tell anyone because Mom needed James to pay bills.
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When a CARE exam for Holli was suggested, Debi became argumentative and said that it did not make any sense to perform a CARE exam on Holli. Based on Holli's statements, Debi Holland covered up James' molestation of her daughter and was complicit in the continuing molestation.
http://www.kcbd.com/story/31865316/...turbing-details-in-holli-jeffcoat-murder-case
That is what so strange. Why were they following mother's wishes at that point? That article says they didn't even do an exam on another female (which I presume is Holli's sister, as other articles flat out say 15 year old sister also alleges abuse) because mother didn't want to. But that means parents can easily prevent abuse investigations by preventing exams being done.