Welcome......I sympathise with your family's loss and long time of grief......We all want to solve this case as I am sure you wish to. Are you here to share insider info, gather outside info, point out possible suspects, defend possible suspects ?.... Opinion - This case thread has the most mysterious, nuanced, veiled hints, craziness, and misinformation posts of any case that I have ever seen . If it starts up again I will just go back to lurking..I have lurked it for quite a while and read it all, the good, the bad, and the lies....... I hope the future for this thread is a shared good one for all .