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There is one more thing I wonder since my last attempt to go through all the newspaper articles to try make some sense out of it didn't make anything clearer for me. And actually the biggest revelation it brought to me was thanks to someone here - who pointed out that it's possible that FA wasn't lying but instead kept saying what she believed was the truth.
All these stories about Rachel, so many of them. Maybe they are just that: multiple stories that lost their best shape during the years. OR... maybe they're not. Cause now, thanks to Tonya I actually see some sort of consistence there.
Looking just at scraps of these stories:
... Rachel got assaulted by someone at the young age ... got pregnant but lost the baby (one way or another) ... ST & TT's marriage ended ... DA & TT dated ... yet he ended up marrying Rachel ...
Yeah, it may not be that odd for 16ish yo girl to marry in early 70's. And there are three reasons why such young girls marry: it's either forced on them by family (or the future spouse), caused by pregnancy or love. Not my place to judge on it, but just by the surface - in my experience when teenager is IN LOVE almost everyone around knows about it, yet at least few school/classmates of Rachel didn't knew, not poining out that she was of the secretative type.
And we also have DA who claims that oh hell yeah, they were bff sisters and shared everything - but in the same time she ended up having no clue about the assault, pregnancy, abortion, Melvin.
That leaves two options: either DA was lying/exagerrating/romanticizing the bond between them (which would't be shocking to anyone) OR the reason why DA wasn't aware of those things is that they did not happen - at all or in the suggested way.
I can see a young teenager not talking about the assault. Even with her friends, sister, nobody - completely possible, not even unusual. But why not talk about Melvin?
... and Rachel didn't appear like madly in love with TT (maybe in reality she was, but I'm relying only on the stories) ... yet ST claims that they were quite friendly with each other (not so common I think between teens sharing ex¤t bf/spouse)
Maybe it's just one story that got torn apart with some facts kept in, some took out, some identities kept in, some changed. But how would that story sound if - just for the sake of theoretical scenario - would melt into one?
Btw. I can see how there could be no tension between DA and Rachel. It could be there but also quite likely that it wasn't (cause people are different, circumstances are different and so on).
But ST?! I mean of course it's also possible, but that IMO would have to be some next level calmness and acceptance.
Cause she had her ex husband dating other girl briefly, having that girl allowed to take care of their child - and her sister, his next, even younger wife, married with no baby on the way (as long as anyone from outside was concerned) also taking care of her child. That could easily cause A LOT of tension, yet according to her she was completely chilled about everything, chatting friendly...That's possible but for me, almost kinda unusual. Cause if she was indeed so friendly... then why she wasn't more involved in right from the start?
It does not sound very... compelling?
Maybe it is very compelling when some important details unknown to me are added.
But like that? It just doesn't sound compelling.
All these stories about Rachel, so many of them. Maybe they are just that: multiple stories that lost their best shape during the years. OR... maybe they're not. Cause now, thanks to Tonya I actually see some sort of consistence there.
Looking just at scraps of these stories:
... Rachel got assaulted by someone at the young age ... got pregnant but lost the baby (one way or another) ... ST & TT's marriage ended ... DA & TT dated ... yet he ended up marrying Rachel ...
Yeah, it may not be that odd for 16ish yo girl to marry in early 70's. And there are three reasons why such young girls marry: it's either forced on them by family (or the future spouse), caused by pregnancy or love. Not my place to judge on it, but just by the surface - in my experience when teenager is IN LOVE almost everyone around knows about it, yet at least few school/classmates of Rachel didn't knew, not poining out that she was of the secretative type.
And we also have DA who claims that oh hell yeah, they were bff sisters and shared everything - but in the same time she ended up having no clue about the assault, pregnancy, abortion, Melvin.
That leaves two options: either DA was lying/exagerrating/romanticizing the bond between them (which would't be shocking to anyone) OR the reason why DA wasn't aware of those things is that they did not happen - at all or in the suggested way.
I can see a young teenager not talking about the assault. Even with her friends, sister, nobody - completely possible, not even unusual. But why not talk about Melvin?
... and Rachel didn't appear like madly in love with TT (maybe in reality she was, but I'm relying only on the stories) ... yet ST claims that they were quite friendly with each other (not so common I think between teens sharing ex¤t bf/spouse)
Maybe it's just one story that got torn apart with some facts kept in, some took out, some identities kept in, some changed. But how would that story sound if - just for the sake of theoretical scenario - would melt into one?
Btw. I can see how there could be no tension between DA and Rachel. It could be there but also quite likely that it wasn't (cause people are different, circumstances are different and so on).
But ST?! I mean of course it's also possible, but that IMO would have to be some next level calmness and acceptance.
Cause she had her ex husband dating other girl briefly, having that girl allowed to take care of their child - and her sister, his next, even younger wife, married with no baby on the way (as long as anyone from outside was concerned) also taking care of her child. That could easily cause A LOT of tension, yet according to her she was completely chilled about everything, chatting friendly...That's possible but for me, almost kinda unusual. Cause if she was indeed so friendly... then why she wasn't more involved in right from the start?
It does not sound very... compelling?
Maybe it is very compelling when some important details unknown to me are added.
But like that? It just doesn't sound compelling.