ami
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Thank you. I left this thread because I just did not want to see the endless speculation about Leanne and Josh. I feel like I know them now and I feel very protective of them and their families as they grieve and settle this on their souls. I am praying that people will leave them in peace. How awful to have a loved ones take their own life, But that is magnified when the world is watching. And all the outsiders are looking in... Judging, Speculating..
IT is one thing for us to take up a case and see if there is something we can do to help. Talk about where someone could be but when they are found under such horrible circumstances, There has to be a point when in good form we stop. We let it rest.
Leanne was loved. She was special. She was also suffering greatly apparently and did not share the depth of that with them. I can't imagine that loss.
I hope that people will be mindful when posting. That they will consider these are not characters but people with real lives that have been blown up. That their lives will never ever be the same.
I hope that Josh has support and love around him every minute of every day. I hope that her parents and siblings are all together helping each other through this horrible reality. And I really really hope that people will consider when posting what if it was your loved one, your family, your pain..
Thanks
Most people who are still posting here became involved and protective - none of us (save one) actually know the family, though many of us communicated with them via FB during the investigation. People have been posting beautiful songs, personal stories, lyrics that speak to them, and talking about our sadness - not "endless speculation". This is how some of us grieve, and I've found it respectful and helpful to stick around and say we're sad and wish the family well. When you "go through" a case with a group of people, sometimes that same group of people are the ones you want to process things with.
I really appreciate Bigg Daddy's words that remind us how in ANY case we participate in, we will never know the full story and that's not necessarily out of any shadiness at all.